Queenie68
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:17:40
I love the name Harper but now the Beckhams have used it it's a no go
( also love Willow but this seems to be growing rapidly in popularity. So ... I've seen the name Harlow come up a few times & it combines 2 of my favourite names. Thoughts please & which spelling is better??
mumzy
Sun 10-Feb-13 22:21:06
I think Saffron is a nicer name and a nicer essex town but your baby, your choice
VinegarDrinker
Sun 10-Feb-13 20:17:29
Harlow (the town) is an absolute dive. Apologies to any Harlow dwellers.
I can't get on with the current middle class trend for "Arlo" either, it just sounds like someone from Harlow saying Harlow.
It is a terrible place. Laindon or Barking would be preferable.
Willow- a beautiful tree with silvery leaves
Harlow- a miserable grey town in Essex
I'd go with Willow...
legallyblond
Sun 10-Feb-13 20:03:51
DD was born in Harlow. Wonderful maternity unit. My god though. The WORST town I have ever been to! Don't. Please, don't!
I've never heard if the place harlow! So I didn't know all that.
There's a boy at our school (not in uk) called Corby and I can't get past the fact whereas nobody else has ever heard of it.
I like it - provided you live absolutely no where near Essex. I like Harper too. Who cares what the Beckhams called their child?
Fallenangle
Sun 10-Feb-13 13:34:02
Basildon - boys name. James' brother.
Fallenangle
Sun 10-Feb-13 13:20:08
What about Marlow. Thats a naice town in Buckinghamshire or,with an e, a poet. Very classy.
gymboywalton
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:48:33
It's not caught on because "the "t" is silent, as in Harlow".
this is exactly what i thought!!!!
it's a dreadful thing to call a child!!!
why on earth, when there are so many really beautiful names about, call your child after a nothing town in a nothing place?
thesnootyfox
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:46:52
I don't normally comment on baby name threads because I think it is a matter of personal taste and nobody's business etc. However on this occasion I feel obliged to say please don't - there are thousands of other names to choose from please don't give your daughter the same name as a drab town in Essex. If you like that kind of name how about Halle or Liberty? There are not many of them about and they have a much nicer sound to them.
tasfi26
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:39:23
I think it's a lovely name 
Rooneyisalwaysmoaning
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:38:38
No one who lives in Harlow would even say Harlow. It's Arlo. There's Old arlo and new arlo as well.
Rooneyisalwaysmoaning
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:37:33
Oh God I was born there...don't do it! It's like calling a kid Wallasey or Toxteth.
SchmaltzingMatilda
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:33:50
You been there?
Stick with Harper
Wishfulmakeupping
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:33:39
I really like it think it's a fab choice
meditrina
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:32:04
It's not caught on because "the "t" is silent, as in Harlow".
Fallenangle
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:28:13
Oh and do you live in an area where kids drop their Hs? You don't want to keep explaining that she is not named for Arlo Guthrie. Does it go with your surname?
Its dreadful
You are either naming the child after a grey town in Essex or after someone's surname.
Fallenangle
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:23:32
Have you been to Harlow? It isn't exactly Florence. But then Brooklyn isn't either. Think through likely nicknames - Harry, Harl....
edam
Sun 10-Feb-13 11:23:00
Definitely without an 'e'. Wouldn't be my choice but hey ho, your baby your decision.