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to snigger that the woman my H went off with, who he is still with is having an affair with another man?

(47 Posts)
whoingodsnameami Wed 18-Nov-09 23:31:45

And everyone seems to know but him?

I wonder if he is gonna like his own medicinegrin

TheCrackFox Wed 18-Nov-09 23:34:45

Don't you just love Karma.

whoingodsnameami Wed 18-Nov-09 23:36:17

Oh yesgrin

Monty100 Wed 18-Nov-09 23:39:33

Poetic justice. wink

Cheappinkfizz Wed 18-Nov-09 23:46:08

No need for revenge when karma does your work for you

scottishmummy Wed 18-Nov-09 23:52:07

well they are all dirty shaggers.so aye have a wry smile

Karma is a wonderful thing indeed.

scottishmummy Wed 18-Nov-09 23:57:39

what goes around comes around

VengefulSinner Wed 18-Nov-09 23:59:23

Hahaha! Perfect justice well and truly served grin

perfectstorm Thu 19-Nov-09 00:09:54

YANBU at all. This can be put neatly in the What Goes Around, Comes Around file, in the Poetic Justice section.

Congrats! grin

kat2907 Thu 19-Nov-09 07:40:39

I can't see how a normal, faithful relationship can result from an affair. Both parties have behaved badly - and when they behave badly again it shouldn't be a bloody surprise!

Fnar fnar grin

bellissima Thu 19-Nov-09 07:43:24

YANBU. enjoy!

yaNbu!!

Why would you need to ask if YABU, you know the answer.
Are you a tiny bit tempted to give him the good news about his floozycurrent partner?

whoingodsnameami Thu 19-Nov-09 11:24:38

kree, nah, not at all, I am just gonna sit back and wait for and enjoy the fireworks ( if he finds out) then I shall tell him I knew, I will even surprise him by confirming the other blokes name, apparently he is a mutual friend to them both, double agony for him, what a tragedygrin

YANBU - serves the dirty dog right.

roulade Thu 19-Nov-09 12:22:42

Mua ha ha ha ha ha!!!!

potplant Thu 19-Nov-09 12:25:10

It is of course, very childish but snigger away!!! Serves him right.

thisxgirl Thu 19-Nov-09 12:34:55

Oh, he's a human being who made a mistake and it isn't healthy to rejoice in other's misfortunes, even if they deserve it...NOT! YANBU, I would be doing a merry dance and would be feeling a sense of closure!

Iklboo Thu 19-Nov-09 12:39:34

Oh the poor thing <snurk>

posieparker Thu 19-Nov-09 12:41:35

Can't you accidentally tell him!!

Brilliant.

norksinmywaistband Thu 19-Nov-09 12:42:53

smile you know YANBU
I would LOVE this tho happen to my soon to be ExH and his floosy

HoochieMommaMizzle Thu 19-Nov-09 12:44:15

wannaBe Thu 19-Nov-09 12:52:59

oh but he has a right to know. <cackle>

I would be inclined to say something like

"so is it true you and x are splitting? no? Oh sorry, I guess I thought that you would given the affair with y." grin

babbi Thu 19-Nov-09 13:01:41

Nope not unreasonable at all !!! Enjoy !!

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