We were at the playground and DD (2.3yo) was about to go on one of the rides when a younger little boy came up to her to take her place. The child's mother was rushing behind him telling him to take his turn but he was too young to understand and in the seconds it took for her to reach them DD pushed him. Luckily it was a small push, he didn't fall over but DD's face said it all. So the other mum took the toddler to the side to explain he should wait his turn and I took DD to the side to explain she should not push. Then she had a go at the ride and when she finished I encouraged her to go to the little boy and tell him it was his turn.
DP then commented on all this and said how pleased he was that DD had pushed the boy because she was assertive and had stood up for herself. He also thought I was wrong to correct her, presumably I should have encouraged her.
Is there any possible universe in which IABU? Being assertive should not involve physical force and in any case she was not being assertive she was being a 2 year who does not understand that pushing hurts!
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Booboostoo · 09/09/2013 19:32
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