I am actually think I am being unreasonable, so would love to have opinions on this.
Known my friends for years, even went to school with her. She could be very attention seeking then, pretending that she was ill, had kidney problems, would state she was a certain weight (a very low weight) when clearly she wasn't etc.
Anyway ... fast forward to now and since then she has very much grown out of it a long time ago.
About a year ago she gave me a lift home and said "me and are Ben are going to start trying for a baby soon" .... I was a little surprised as they hadn't dated long and we're still quite young so the biological clock isn't ticking just yet.
But I kept my opinion to myself and just said how exciting etc. She then asked me not to say anything, which I didn't.
It wasn't mentioned again and then we (group of 5 friends) were out for dinner when she announced that she was engaged but they wouldn't be having children for a couple of years yet.
When another friend said "Oh but I thought you were going to try for a baby together a while back?"
And others agreed.
So she had obviously told us all and said to not tell anyone, and then they didn't even try for a baby anyway.
Aibu to think this is attention-seeing behaviour? Really don't mind if I'm wrong - as I might be just thinking that purely based on how she was as a teenager.
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GorillaGozilla · 03/03/2013 21:40
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