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to be mad at my husband for being an argumentative grumpy man in the mornings

(30 Posts)
ThePFJ Mon 11-Feb-13 09:20:58

......he woke up like a bulldog who had been shot in the ass, argued with me over everything in front of our 4 year old before school this morning, and when he later apologised 10 mins ago, I just accepted the apology to make it all stop.
AIBU to now be angry at him for putting me in such a BAD mood.
A nice snowy morning like this should have been fun.....
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
(rant over)

Bogeyface Mon 11-Feb-13 13:43:41

I am not a morning person at all, I really struggle to get up and get going, but I dont use it as a reason to be vile to anyone. Most people dont!

DPotter Mon 11-Feb-13 13:57:45

Yes of course I fully function at work - by the time I get there I've been up for 2.5 hrs at least so I'm well and truely awake. My DP is not a evening person - expecting him to have an indepth discussion on any subject is a waste of time after 9.30-10pm so I don't try.

Saying I'm not a morning person isn't an excuse for grumpy behaviour. It's recognising that I'm better at certain times of the day than others. We're all different thank god.

mrsjay Mon 11-Feb-13 14:04:50

Saying I'm not a morning person isn't an excuse for grumpy behaviour. It's recognising that I'm better at certain times of the day than others. We're all different thank god.

^ ^ thats. I do eventually function I just dont need cheery chat first thing in the morning

ThePFJ Mon 11-Feb-13 16:19:15

Wow - what a lot of replies...
DH is grumpy 10% of mornings...
But responding to people who have 'chipper' husbands...
my Dad used to sing at me top volume when I was growing up through to my late teens 'TIME TO GET UPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP... DO dodo DO dodo TIME TO GET UP'
I have to be honest... it made me want to stab him in the face.
So maybe grumpy IS better?! o.O

andubelievedthat Mon 11-Feb-13 17:40:08

i am likewise ,thou my partner knows to avoid me completely ,but then no kids at home so...

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