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Copped off with a man half my age last night, is that Horribly Wrong?

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Or AIBU to be boasting about it grin? Oh BTW I am 48, he was 25 so put your pitchforks down...

What are clubs like now?

I haven't been in one for ten years - bloody hell, that's a looong time.

deleted203 Sat 26-Jan-13 22:08:01

I think you're brave! I'm faintly envious that you could face having sex with a 25 year old. I'm 45 and although the idea vaguely appeals in my imagination when it came down to the reality of revealing my saggy old body and stretchmarked skin I suspect it would be a less than glorious experience. (For him, at the very least grin).

WorraLiberty Sat 26-Jan-13 22:08:03

<< slaps OP on back >>

Good on ya, you old perv! grin

catgirl1976 Sat 26-Jan-13 22:08:06

Lovely smile

DSis had a similiar thing recently and was initially a bit upset that it was over a little quicky

Then she was re-introduced to the lightening recovery time of the young and was most pleased grin

<rubs thighs and says "young maaan">

Herrena Sat 26-Jan-13 22:12:03

Good grief catgirl, I thought my DH was the only one who used that awful phrase! and he does the actions too

Are you Up North by any chance?

Darkesteyes Sat 26-Jan-13 22:12:36

Nice one SolidGold. No wonder you are glowing. grin Interested in the novel you are writing too.

catgirl1976 Sat 26-Jan-13 22:13:42

grin I am

ILoveTIFFANY Sat 26-Jan-13 22:14:03

Well I definitely approve!! grin

BertieBotts Sat 26-Jan-13 22:15:20

Ohh, is this the anti-shades-of-crap novel?

Glad you had a good night grin

ErikNorseman Sat 26-Jan-13 22:15:23

Show off!

FunnysInLaJardin Sat 26-Jan-13 22:15:28

you used to review fetish clubs ? confused

WorraLiberty Sat 26-Jan-13 22:16:53

Can you imagine the replies if a man started a thread boasting about fucking a random woman nearly half his age? grin

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Fill in the blanks yourselves grin

DianaTrent Sat 26-Jan-13 22:17:18

Sounds eminently reasonable to me!

FunnysInLaJardin Sat 26-Jan-13 22:19:03

I have to agree with so, I could not impose my hideous post 40 post 2dc body on any poor youngster. It is enough that I impose it on my DH who had known it (in the biblical sense) for TWENTY FIVE YEARS shock. It would traumatise a 25 yo I kid thee not

AgentZigzag Sat 26-Jan-13 22:19:53

I wondered that too worra, but I think it'd be seen as him on the wind up, unless it was a regular poster a lot recognised.

Which might apply with this thread a bit?

But even if it was a NC, I don't think many would have that much to say about it.

Is sex the same now or have the young people changed it?
( living vicariously) wink

happybubblebrain Sat 26-Jan-13 22:20:21

Lets just hope he didn't do it for a bet.
I'm not envy btw.

WorraLiberty Sat 26-Jan-13 22:22:07

I think there's as chance it'd bring the miserable fuckers out and the word 'misogyny' would probably get a good airing AZZ grin

That did actually occur to me. However, my conscience is clear (hey, he started it!) and I also don't think it's always wrong for the age gap to be the other way round, when it's just a bit of fun (rather than someone wanting a younger long-term partner to 'educate' ie control).

WorraLiberty Sat 26-Jan-13 22:28:55

Who cares why he did it (doubt it was a bet anyway) you both enjoyed it and that's the main thing.

PariahHairy Sat 26-Jan-13 22:29:32

Nah YANBU, when I was young and used to go out a lot, there was a MIL of one one my friends who came out with us, (my friend wasn't married but easier to say MIL).

She wasn't glam or particularly young looking, but did surprisingly well in the copping off stakes, especially with the younger dudes, She was quite a bit married so possibly shouldn't have though grin.

marriedinwhite Sat 26-Jan-13 22:30:29

The wine's nice. Wonders if DH is already asleep grin. Nah, not Sunday wink

Herrena Sat 26-Jan-13 22:34:03

catgirl - I did wonder if it was a Northern perversion thing grin it's horrible when he does it, and the facial expression is!!!

As long as all parties are happy about copping off and being copped off with (copper and coppee?) then that is the main thing....

WorraLiberty Sat 26-Jan-13 22:36:38

Isn't the "young maaan" thing from the Harry Enfield show?

You know the two old women who keep calling plumbers and various work men to perv over? grin

Enfyshedd Sat 26-Jan-13 22:38:27

Have to admit to have had a slight perv over a mate's toyboy's younger brother a few years ago (pre-DP). Then I was informed he was 15 - a yr10 15 blush

In my defence, when I met him, he was having a pint with his DB in the pub and he was 6'4" tall!!!

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