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neighbour on at me to keep my heating on

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clovissa · 16/03/2012 22:06

We've just rented a house, been in a couple of weeks. We have the main house and the back half of the basement. The front half of the basement is a one-bed flat. The night we moved in the switch tripped and we found out the switches are in the other flat, but there is a key over the connecting door, so we're to knock, then let ourselves in if there's no reply. He's an oldish guy, seems nice.

Now it turns out we share all utilities with him. This was never mentioned before, they apply a ratio.

He has been up twice now because we haven't got the heating on and he's cold. He wants us to put it on and then turn down all our radiators if we don't need them on. It's a bit of a jig as we have four floors and are in all day.

He also said our tumble drier was going to run the bills up and he's very careful. I've told him not to worry, we will make sure his bills don't go up but arch.

Also, someone I know nothing about has a key to enter our house. Isn't that a bit weird Hmm?

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EdlessAllenPoe · 16/03/2012 22:09

erm..have you spoken to your landlord?

pingu2209 · 16/03/2012 22:09

did you know all this before you signed the rental agreement?

I would move. It would be an impossible situation for me. Do you have children? He could be a perv!

1Catherine1 · 16/03/2012 22:10

I'm sure I've heard stories like this on Rip-off Britain... I'm not even sure if it is legal. Don't quote me though, it just doesn't sound right. I would have a chat with CAB, and change the locks...

AgentZigzag · 16/03/2012 22:11

That doesn't sound right at all.

I don't know all the legal ins and outs of it but surely your LL should have said about it before you moved in!

Nobody should expect you to have the heating on four floors of a house just so the poor bloke doesn't freeze his bollocks off.

I would ask the CAB what they think of it.

emsyj · 16/03/2012 22:12

That is the most bizarre situation I've ever heard of. Technically it's not even a legal tenancy is it, if he has keys to the property and can let himself in? A tenancy requires exclusive occupation and you don't have that.

clovissa · 16/03/2012 22:12

Well, he could be a perv, but he seems a normal sort of chap. I talked to the landlord who is a young guy, left the house by his mum, v. wealthy, said he would love to get him out but he doesn't want to go.

We have a toddler and a teen. The teen is on the other side of his door. There are burglar alarms but of course we don't use them.

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marriedinwhite · 16/03/2012 22:13

What does the rental agreement say?

DoMeDon · 16/03/2012 22:13

Yes - weird - move.

SundaeGirl · 16/03/2012 22:13

Call the utilities companies and tell them, and complain to your landlord that this wasn't made clear to you.

Let us know how you get on, tho. I'm a professional landlord and haven't heard of this before - I'd love to know what happens next.

saggarmakersbottomknocker · 16/03/2012 22:14

So he has no control of his own heating? Your boiler heats his house? And your fuse box is in his flat?

Stratters · 16/03/2012 22:15
Shock
DodieSmith · 16/03/2012 22:15

He's unlikely to be a perv.

Littlefish · 16/03/2012 22:15

I know this won't help, but when we were buying our house, it turned out that we had a shared water supply with our neighbour. One bill for two properties which was just divided up (no idea how the proprtions were decided). We agreed to go ahead with the purchase, only once the vendors agreed to have the water supplies separated. No way would I have wanted to continue withe the previous arrangement,

You need go speak urgently to your landlord. Personally, I wouldn't be happy living there.

saggarmakersbottomknocker · 16/03/2012 22:16

Is he some sort of squatter?

saggarmakersbottomknocker · 16/03/2012 22:19

Surely if he wants him out he gives him notice to quit in accordance with his tenancy. If he has one Hmm. Most odd.

1Catherine1 · 16/03/2012 22:20

Idk, Littlefish, depending if you were on a meter or not it could have saved you a few pence. Standing charges just halved. Wink

I'm sure that wasn't the point though and I have just missed it Confused

clovissa · 16/03/2012 22:22

I really don't think he's a perv. I mean, I know you can't tell, but i think it very far-fetched that he would get into the house. DS is on the second floor with us, teen is in the basement on the other side of his door.

He has no control over his heating at all. THe LL mentioned that if we turn it off he freezes. We only found this the day after we moved in. We have individual thermostats on the radiators. Heating system is v. good but it's a bit complicated to be running all over the house turning them up and down. To be honest, we don't run a very tight ship, bit disorganised.

As rentals go, where we are, it's about as posh as it gets. We got it because our house sale fell through and we needed something in the right school catchment area. We absolutely love the house, it's the most perfect place I've ever lived and they would drag me out of it backwards.

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starfishmummy · 16/03/2012 22:56

We absolutely love the house, it's the most perfect place I've ever lived and they would drag me out of it backwards.

In that case I think you'll just have to put up with it then. It might not be "right" or legal, but getting it sorted is going to be a whole lot of bother.

HalfPastWine · 16/03/2012 23:08

This sounds a bit dodgy to me. The LL is taking the piss out of the pair of you imo. I feel sorry for the other guy too because he is obviously happy where he is but has the stress of the bills being raised because of you, the new tenant. That's no way to live.

I would seek advice and then approach your LL.

Clytaemnestra · 16/03/2012 23:08

Possibly he is a sitting tenant, in which case they can't move him on.

They can and should be able to split the heating up though.

hellymelly · 16/03/2012 23:22

I think if you love it that much, and he seems a nice enough chap, then put up with it. I think you will just get used to it and it will seem normal enough in time. It doesn't sound dreadful. Unusual yes, but not all that bad. (As long as the bill thing is worked out fairly).

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 16/03/2012 23:30

Jesus christ, that poor man. Could he not be provided with some oil heaters or something at least ? Really, it sounds horrendous.

mumeeee · 16/03/2012 23:38

It does seem odd. But if you want to stay you should put up with this for now. Put the heating on and turn the radiators off. It's not fair on tour neighbour if he can't have heating. Speak to to your land lord and ask him to split the heating.

raffle · 16/03/2012 23:55

So he has no control of his own heating? Your boiler heats his house? And your fuse box is in his flat?

Saggers asks the questions I was pondering...very unusual set up, open to financial complications all round.

Can't help picturing an elderly bloke in a cardigan warming his hands off a candle!

GravyAndALumpyMashBaby · 16/03/2012 23:57

How do you split and pay your 'shared' utilities?

I wouldn't stay in a house where a stranger (and not the LL or LA) has a key.
Sounds a headache to me. Confused

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