Dd is 14 months am pg due in aug with dc2. V tired at the mo and suffering insomnia and intermittent cramps that have me unable to move for a few hours.
Last week dh and I were meant to have a date night on wed but inlaws couldn't babysit so we cancelled. This week I had plans for tonight (which I told dh but he says I didn't and i can be q forgetful) but he arranged for pil to come over to babysit. I said for him to cancel their visit tonight so they can babysit next wed instead (fil takes a night off work but likes to spend time with his gd) and in any case we'll prob see them at the weekend as fil bday is Val day and then next weekend too as the 18th is dh bday.
I did suggest we do a joint thing for dh and fil as their bdays are 4 days apart (and would separately do a meal with friends for dh too) but dh said he wanted his own celebration, sigh.
We're due to visit my folks at the weekend but dh has invited them over tomorrow night to see dd as he is going out. I love my parents and his but feel a bit overloaded seeing them all so much when I just wAnt to be in my pjs lie down, watch tv and sleep. Plus Im at work tomorrow which means dd is at nursery Nd will be v tired, grouchy and sleep at seven so seems a pointless visit for my folks (but they'll do it as they love their gd).
The house is a mess and I now need to make dinner for everyone tonight & tomorrow (dh says get take away but in Asian culture ppl will think I'm unhospitable if I do that).
We live an hour away from each set of inlaws. They're all great with dd but so full on you need a break to recover (!).
Just feeling overwhelmed.
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Angel786 · 08/02/2012 12:05
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