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..because their precious off spring won't eat what is served??
Unbelievably ill mannered and more to the point, when did it all start ? In our day you either ate what was put in front of you or discreetly left it. No whingeing or demands for pizzas or chicken nuggets or bloody Pizza Express dough balls. No wonder your relatives get the hump.