Really struggling after arguing with DD about Drag

alwaysmeeee · 2023-03-24 15:51:29

My DD25 has some MH problems and so we've spent a lot of time walking on eggshells. A couple of weeks ago I was talking about how I didn't like Drag Queen story time events and found it wrong and worrying. She's in the whole TWAW vibe and even discussions about safe spaces for women have been shot down, despite her being sexually assaulted by a man at work. Today I woke up to her sharing a post basically condemning people who are against drag queen story times. The timing of this is that DD is due to get married in 6 days and thrives on drama and tries to create it when there are upcoming events. It's happened many times before. So today I didn't walk in egg shells. I said what I thought. She's ripped me to shreds, I'm a terrible mother, she's included other young teen DD in this so they're both being hateful to me. I feel utterly hurt and so depressed about the whole thing. I'm due to start making her wedding cake tomorrow... How can I get over this and get back on good terms with everyone. I shouldn't have to change my view on this and I won't but his this will be a horrible week and wedding. I wish I'd never seen that bloody post. I am in my bed sobbing. What would you do? (NC but long time poster)