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how the fuck do i handle?
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candlerings · 10/08/2017 14:29

13 DD Asked for kickers shoes for school. They are very nice but her school has a rule against them. She says they don't enforce the rule but i'm fucking stuck on what to do, all of her friends have them so i'm really unsure.....

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lljkk · 10/08/2017 20:51

She buys them with own money. If they get worn daily & worn/grown out without being rejected by school, you repay the money.

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MoodyMumOfOne · 10/08/2017 17:49

You could initially buy her a cheap pair of shoes from e.g. Tesco to last half a term and tell her you will contact her school at the beginning of term for clarity ie will the "ban" be lifted or enforced. If they say they are still banned, check what happens re her friend's shoes and follow it up with the school from there. Would that help?

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BertrandRussell · 10/08/2017 14:33

If she wants them, she buys them with her own money. Sorted.

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Sittinginthesun · 10/08/2017 14:32

I wouldn't buy them. What happens if the school decide to enforce this? Do you really want to have to go a buy another pair of shoes?

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Wolfiefan · 10/08/2017 14:31

If the school has a rule then I wouldn't get them. School may have let standards slip over the course of the year. (Rubbish but it happens!) First day back they will pull up all the kids in the wrong uniform.
I would ask school to be consistent. Either remove the ban on these shoes or enforce it.

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