bit of a long one I'm afraid - my daughter has always been strong minded but over the last months has taken it beyond just being a teenager - she has been brought up in an environment of balance between discipline and allowing to make some of her own decisions - a middle class family life with a loving family including a very hands on grandmother - she often calls me words beginning with c, idiot etc and has not been focusing on revision - in fact in 10 days has done about 2 hours which worries me for her future - she seems to think she is bright and will wing it - her grades have slipped and her mocks were well below what she is capable of as she didn't revise. But this holiday I am exasperated, the beginning of the holidays last she wanted to stay out for 3 days which I allowed to so she could get it out of her system but I knew where she was. Friday to Sunday this weekend she was her nice normal self we even had lunch which is in heard of then of Sunday she went to a party in a club - promised me she would be home 0130 with her friend but arrived at 0230 but switched her location settings off and ignored all mind and her dads messages so we were up with worry. Last night told me she was staying with a particular friend but I could tell wasn't there from location settings, when I asked she blocked me and her father - finally I spoke to her today 24 hours after seeing her and he response is she doesn't like us and can do what she wants - with massive attitude and in fact has told me she isn't coming home til Friday . all I have ever asked for is I know where she is so she is safe - appreciate at times I might like what she tells me but that's my problem so I have tried to be reasonable and just don't know what to do to get her to be respectful as I don't think its right for a 16 year girl to not have contact - its like its a game - i'll be damned if I ignore her to try and teach a lesson and am clearly damned by trying to support her - anyone else having the same experiences ?
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