DS1 seems to be slowly but surely giving up all his 'extracurricular' activities. Can't be bothered to do things, feels too tired etc. Is very bright and getting on well academically at school but the impression I get is that he's disengaging from everything outside the classroom. Still does some sport, but only when he has to. Never seems to pro-actively want to do anything.
Is this normal? How many 'activities' do your 15 year olds do? He was always pretty involved in music (individual lessons and school bands, all now stopped) and sport (football, rugby and cricket teams at school and member of a rugby club... hanging on to these but barely, and often chooses not to go to practices).
I feel that he's too old for us to 'make' him to go to these things if he doesn't want to, but I worry that he might get to a point where he's doing nothing outside school, limiting friendship groups and wider world experience, and nothing inside school, limiting friendship groups, wider world experience and his popularity with teachers!!
Would love to hear what your 15 year olds are doing or not doing, and whether his lethargy is normal or not. Wondering if he's asserting a bit of independence and might go back to these things under his own steam, but suspect it's unlikely he'd re-join things having given them up?
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Scatter · 29/02/2016 10:24
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