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What is the best sex toy?

27 replies

stereoboomer · 25/01/2017 11:36

Hi All

My OH has booked a romantic weekend for my birthday treat. We have a few toys but just the usual cock lookalikes etc etc. I am just trying to find out what people think is the best toy - one that if they couldn't have any other it must be this one? Just asking advice.


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AQuietMind · 25/01/2017 11:37

Womaniser - don't let the name put you off. Expensive but worth every penny.

Bicarb · 25/01/2017 13:24

Another not cheap one, but the Doxy has very positive reviews from people I know.

It will shake your fillings out at higher levels though and is not very quiet!

I got it to use with my (now ex)-GF, but bought a male attachment for it too that slides over the end. It makes me come in an embarrasingly short time...

lottieandmia · 25/01/2017 14:31

I like the Lelo ones.

NotTheFordType · 25/01/2017 15:15

I found the Womanizer extremely painful. Ditto the Lelo 2.

The mains-powered magic wand (either Hitachi brand or LoveHoney's own version) or the smaller rechargeable magic wand are probably my go to toys if I'm just getting myself off. For a solo session I might add my 5" dildo and/or my anal beads.

If playing with a partner, anything goes really. I've got a few other size dildoes and a strap on harness. Bullet vibrator. Cock ring. etc.

My favourite with a male partner is to have them fuck me from behind while I use the wand on my clit.

stereoboomer · 25/01/2017 16:31

Wow thanks for the info NotthehFord. A lot to think about there lol

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Ineedmorelemonpledge · 25/01/2017 18:46

Hitachi wand or fairy Wand and a womaniser are my favourite.

We have a couple of plugs we enjoy mutually too.

Patchouli666 · 25/01/2017 19:55

Got a womaniser from lovehoney. The black version with skulls on it! Better than girly pink any day! It's fab. Tho sometimes I do find it hard to concentrate on when actually using it when dtd. As foreplay or after hubby has come, then it's great as I can really concentrate on it. The lovehoney mini rechargeable wand is brilliant too. Lovehoney are great tho, whatever you order you can send back for a full year for any reason. So go for it!
My hubby loves the anaeros toys too. Remember to order the lube for them tho!

StealingYourWiFi · 25/01/2017 19:56

The WeVibe is fab

Patchouli666 · 25/01/2017 19:57

However, just to add, I have a vch piercing which may affect the positioning I can now get with the womaniser tho so the during sex probs may not be a concern for most

MightyFine79 · 25/01/2017 20:22

Our Lelo has been amazing, expensive but really good quality. Don't know which model but it's quite slim and compact.

MinniesAndMickeysNeedCounting · 26/01/2017 22:57

Basic cock rings, simple bullet for duel play with your partner

Womanizer for going solo, is fab, (I got cramp in my legs the other day after using it)Blush

Oogle · 28/01/2017 07:18

I have the womaniser and whilst it's great, I prefer it for solo play. I find the orgasm extremely intense and totally different from orgasm through any other method.

No1maso · 28/01/2017 21:59

Love Honey wand! I swear by it!

DJKKSlider · 28/01/2017 22:02

Wand or Womanizer

Sallystyle · 01/02/2017 22:26

Lelo Magic wand thing.

I can't remember the name off hand, but it's huge, it's a massager as well but my god that gives some powerful orgasms. Expensive but worth every penny. Noisy though!

AkimboLimbo · 03/02/2017 22:26

Lovehoney Magic Wand
Lovehoney Mini Magic Wand

IneedmoreLemonPledge · 06/02/2017 19:30

Sorry to hijack the thread but does anyone have attachments for their Wand?

I've just used the actual head. Wondered if they were worth a try?

Sherlock35 · 06/02/2017 19:35

Lelo Mia 2. USB charged and does the job every. Single. Time.

AkimboLimbo · 06/02/2017 21:06

Yes I have the G-spot attachment for my magic wand - I rarely use it to be honest. It's ok but nothing special. It came free when I bought mine.
I love g-spot stimulation but I can't orgasm from that alone.

DanGleballs · 09/02/2017 19:30

Definitely a wand. I killed my lelo wand Sad.

katand2kits · 09/02/2017 20:39

Gotta add another recommendation for the lovehoney mains powered wand!

AkimboLimbo · 10/02/2017 08:16

Lovehoney mains powered Magic Wand is on Deal of the Day
TODAY only £35


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Newbeginnings2 · 11/02/2017 19:41

I recently bought moregasm rabbit ears and although a bit noisy I'd highly recommend them!

Therewere5inthebed · 13/02/2017 22:59

Womaniser, without a doubt the best money I've ever spent..

RainbowHash · 23/02/2017 20:10

I've decided to buy my first vibrator.... tempted by a rabbit but now going to research womaniser. But.... I want something as silent as possible! Any recommendations based on that criteria? Thanks

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