Sorry - I've changed my name just in case of passing relatives/friends
Yesterday was a very stressful day and I haven't got anyone else to talk to about it (I work with dh so can't talk to colleagues, friends live miles away and don't have kids anyway and my family would just stress out about the whole thing). So hope you don't mind if I just offload all my woes onto mumsnets broad shoulders. I don't suppose I'm really looking for advice, just tea and sympathy.
Poor little ds fell into a mop bucket yesterday (OK I know it prob sounds funny!.) I was cleaning the floors and left dh and ds playing with toys in a small basin of water. But dh was not paying attention and while his back was turned, ds crawled off and overturned the bucket onto his head and swallowed some of it and started choking on it. I heard the noise and ran out and found ds lying on the floor unable to breath and waving his little arms and legs around feebly. Dh was only a metre or so away from him but his back was turned. He was still unaware that anything had happened at all. I picked ds up and slapped his back a couple of times and then we went to casualty just to check his little lungs and stomach were OK after swallowing bleach in the water.
Everything was fine and I'm trying very hard not to blame dh for not watching him properly. In fact, at first I didn't blame him at all because after all accidents can happen even in a split second and it's impossible to watch our kids all all all the time. But dh just seems really nonchalant about the whole thing and doesn't seem to think that babies need watching when they are anywhere near water any more than they do when just crawling around on the floor in general.
DH is generally very laid back about this kind of thing and maybe I am too uptight but I just find it impossible to convince him that sometimes he needs to take more care of our ds. This is the latest of a long line of 'not serious but could have been' incidents
I can't help thinking what could have happened. Today I feel very tearful. Of course I also blame myself for not paying more attention to where the bucket was. Oh woe. Could someone just write something sympathetic to make me feel better?
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sympathy needed here please (very whingey post)
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sadmummy · 23/06/2003 12:47
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