My exh found out when he was here last night looking after dc that my 2dc met my bf a few weeks ago. He's said things to them like he wants to murder him but won't because he's a dad, and punched a hole in a wall in my (still our) house. He's basically lost his shit.
They're in their teens and agreed it would be ok for my bf (of 8 months) to be there when I gave them a lift 4 weeks ago, we were passing where they were and they wanted home. Both said they were fine meeting him, that's been it, half an hour in the car and they haven't seen them since. I'm in no way trying to wedge him into their lives.
Should I approach ex about his reaction or leave it?
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greenfingers39 · 19/03/2023 14:04
greenfingers39 · 19/03/2023 16:26
@frozendaisy I've not spoken to bf since I got home, will fill him in later. I really need a
Clean break from this maniac, he's gotten himself into a bunch of debt since we split though so I'm stuck until he clears that and can get a mortgage to buy me out. It's a mess
greenfingers39 · 19/03/2023 16:26
@frozendaisy I've not spoken to bf since I got home, will fill him in later. I really need a
Clean break from this maniac, he's gotten himself into a bunch of debt since we split though so I'm stuck until he clears that and can get a mortgage to buy me out. It's a mess
greenfingers39 · 19/03/2023 15:03
If it were just me it would affect (which would only be positive) a nmo would be wonderful! Involving the police I fear would cause even more damage to dc, dc2 especially thinks the sun shines out his arse and dd1 is already on rocky ground with him. We're just trying to encourage her to control her emotions and this is how he continues to show her how to behave 🤦🏼♀️
Aquamarine1029 · 19/03/2023 14:16
I'd report him to the police and keep him out of your home.
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