My friend and I are very close and it is leading to a relationship. There is a woman who has latched on to him and will comment and likes the majority of his posts on social media and WhatsApp group chat. She does not do this with others and is against all the other women in the group chat and defends him all of the time. She suffers from ill health. She has been in a relationship for over 20 years which the last 8 years she said her and her partner have slept in separate beds and said he strung her along as she wanted a family. She said he has been a narcissist but they are more like friends now. She won't leave as she can't afford her own place.
She has outright said she chats to other men and is on dating sites looking for a relationship even though she is with someone. She says the men are annoyed and leave once they find out she is not single. This situation with this woman is making me feeling a bit insecure as this man and I have never had a love that has felt like this before as we have discussed this and I don't want to lose it. My friend would not date a woman who is in a relationship as he has been cheated on and he is disgusted with cheating. He doesn't see her in that way as he has said so but she has mistaken his friendliness for interest. I don't know what to do.
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She is after him
star70 · 06/08/2022 14:14
RainbowsMoonbeams · 06/08/2022 16:16
How do you know so much about this other woman? Is this info he has told you?
Perhaps he is enjoying getting his ego massaged by two women doing the kick me dance?
RainbowsMoonbeams · 06/08/2022 16:16
pick me dance 😂
RainbowsMoonbeams · 06/08/2022 16:16
How do you know so much about this other woman? Is this info he has told you?
Perhaps he is enjoying getting his ego massaged by two women doing the kick me dance?
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