Hi, I'm not sure what I am asking I just need to vent I think
We've been married for 20 years, and I feel like we've just gone flat.
If I'm really very honest I'm not sure if I really like him very much any more. I'd really like this to not be the case and I really don't want to be a single parent and all that entails.
I think covid hit us hard, we were very isolated.
But now it is like there's not a lot of friendship there. We don't laugh together etc. he's more ok with it than me, keen to have sex still but I'm
Not so interested as I feel unconnected.
He's started taking antidepressants recently as I said we need to do something drastically as it was getting bad, his mood is very low and hard to live in a house like that.l, where the other person barely speaks.
So I want to give it time for this to maybe help. It's the first time he's tried this and probably should have long ago so I need to give it a chance.
Is it possible to pull it back do you think? Maybe fiend more time together, try to get something to talk about and regrow the relationship?
I'm so worried I will look back in ten years with regret.
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louise020 · 06/08/2022 10:41
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