So backstory, I have been with my boyfriend for 12 years we have a 9yo son together.
I don’t have many friends at all and I have none that actually bother to invite me out or check in with me…. Except for one.
I worked with this guy for a bit and we got on well so naturally became friends. I shall call the friend Calvin for ease of reading.
Calvin asked me to go to the Cinema and I accepted. I let my boyfriend know. He made a comment in a “jokey” way about me cheating.
I feel rubbish now, a mixture of anger that he would even think that of me and guilt even though there is no reason to feel guilty at all. Its kind of put a dampener on it and I don’t know if I should cancel?
Calvin is a very nice man in general, he has very traditional views on sex and marriage if that makes sense. Basically I know he would never even think of making a move, he isn’t even flirty in the slightest. I also do not see our friendship ad anything more that just that.
I really want to have friends and people that care about me but is it only ok if they are female?!
Anybody willing to share stories of opposite sex friendships whilst in a relationship?
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Being allowed to have male friends without feeling like I’m doing something bad?
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Studentmum1292 · 27/06/2022 19:20
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