My DD is 10, in general she’s a happy, funny kid. Has great ideas for play, entertaining herself, she has lots of things she enjoys like reading, art, which I encourage but don’t push.
In the last year she has become utterly miserable. If she as much as brushes last something she’s howling and crying like she’s broken a bone, she complains constantly about everything, she’s too cold, she’s too hot, yesterday it was because her friends who had been out playing all morning didn’t leave snow for her to play with then she went out at 2pm.
We’re very close and talk openly about everything. I’ve asked her to try tell me how she’s feeling inside but she just says sad.
I brought her to the GP over every little thing hurting her and of course while she was there she was sunshine and delight and made me look insane.
I am completely lost on what to do. How can I help her be less miserable? I worry she’s going to grow into one of those people that drains the colour from everything with her constant moaning.
I’ve asked some local parents were friends with who have kids the same age but they’re not experiencing anything like this.
I just want to help my daughter to be happy more of the time, and less like everything in life is a chore for her. My heart is breaking seeing her so sad :(
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Frolicinameadow · 08/01/2021 10:53
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