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Dd (11) has just found out she has been left out of a big party this weekend by a girl she considered a friend, not a close one but still a friend. There are 2 classes of just under 20 in her year and supposedly there are 20 kids invited (it's an outdoor organised event type party so Covid approved). She thinks most of the kids going are from her class and a few from the other but she doesn't know this for certain. She found out from one of the new girls in her class who has been invited despite not being a friend of this girl. This new girl is a close friend of dd and started chatting to her about the party assuming she was going.
Dd is completely devastated. How can I help her? I have told her maybe this girl is friends with lots of people and it was really hard to choose. But she doesn't understand why the new girl was invited over her. I suspect dd will not talk to this girl again (I know she has already de-friended her on Roblox). What can I say to make her feel less upset and rejected?
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mangothoughts · 26/10/2020 18:49
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