My dd is 12.5 yrs old, and for the last couple of months it's been one thing after another.
Firstly, she lies.... nothing major, but continuous low level stuff. Like where she is, what time she got home when both her dad and I are at home, why she's on a phone ban at school.
Before Christmas I checked her phone, as we do regularly, and her Insta msg's were full of inappropriate msg's from a "boy". I spoke to the police who made a report of sexual exploitation, and we went through all of that. The police didnt pursue it as they felt the chances of finding the person were minimal, but they did speak to my dd on the phone about what had happened.
Constantly having sweets and chocolate wrappers on her and around her room, but we don't give her money! Apparently, it's always her friends buying them for her.
Periods - she never tells me when she has her period. And "hides" the evidence. Think used towels and bloody knickers hidden in her room. It's horrible and happens over and over again.
And today I've found a note in her school blazer, "I hate science, I hate myself, I hate paedos, I hate people who hate me, I hate bitches, I hate bitchy people unless they are my friend, I like friends, I like Riverdale, I love Vampire Diaries". So another thing I have to talk to her about...
I don't understand why she's so shut down, or how to help her. She literally tells me nothing, and I find it difficult to help her because of this... Can anyone please give me some advice??
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sasparilla1 · 02/02/2019 10:30
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