DD (age 11) is bright and is now attending a great grammar school. The school want to encourage the girls to start taking responsibility for things (positive thing) homework, p.e kit and so on. Anyhow, during Y6, I would get many phonecalls from the school secretary about the things that dd had forgotten - primarily swim kit but now in Y7 this has taken on a more serious level where detentions etc. are involved. We are only a couple of weeks into the first term and DD appears to have lost 2 bus passes (definitely one), the second only yesterday (and we asked her to pay to replace the first one so there were consequences), lost one of her locker keys, has forgotten her homework, leaves her raincoat in her school locker and last week mislaid both of her school jumpers which she then found stuffed in her p.e bag and on top of this is constantly forgetting her pass - doors are key fob operated.
I know it is only just the beginning of secondary school but can anyone tell me, does it get better? This has been a real uphill struggle with dd but I have not nagged her too much because I wanted her to focus on her school work/having fun. She is coming home tired from a new routine too which isn't helping matters. I do believe it is really important to take responsibility for things and therefore have been asked not to prompt/check bags etc. but it is really hard not to fall into this role - she was in tears last week for forgetting her homework.
Reading some of the threads, it is largely mothers of boys who seem to be complaining of this but I can definitely vouch for it not being solely a boy trait. Did things improve for your dc? At the moment it seems to be a steep learning curve for dd and is really hard to watch.
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Monkeytree · 25/09/2017 11:34
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