Can't seem to arrange play dates

[PeopleAreCruel]

Have name changed for this.
Older DD has anorexia. Doing well and back at school with offers from great unis.
You would not know to look at her though the mental scars will take so long to heal.
For all of us.
Its been hard for everyone.
Youngest DD has had worst time as so diff to understand anorexia at any age but when young it makes no sense.
And she idolises DD
And now when I ask for play dates with other children, I get excuses.
It's not something one catches.

[PeopleAreCruel]

I think it is. Youngest is 8.
Nothing else has changed.

[BackforGood]

I doubt it has anything to do with an older dd.
How old is dd2?