I work part time but on a rota (so not the same days each week, but never on Friday). All my kids go to after school clubs Monday - Thursday. The younger 2 enjoy theirs but I dont send the youngest (nearly 6) if I'm not working as it makes his day very long. DC2 prefers to go every time for social reasons.
My eldest has decided she hates her after school club and is going on and on and on about it - it's come to a head as the school has recently said children are either enrolled or not and cannot just attend sometimes (so she can no longer be signed off after school club on days I don't work).
12 yo wants to come home on the bus after school and stay home alone for 2 hours. In average this would be 2 days a week but as it's a rota some weeks 4 days, some weeks I'd be home every time.
I'm not concerned about her being in the house alone (although not really happy that she'll probably mess about on her phone once she's done her homework instead of the wholesome activities at after school club) but am concerned about not knowing she's home safe and her missing the bus or losing her key.
She is very used to getting the bus (does it every morning and on Friday) and to being home alone by choice while I run the younger children here and there, but not to coming home to an empty house with nobody due home for 2 hours.
Her main argument against after school club is that it is too loud (but also that her best friend has stopped going... )
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5moreminutes · 07/12/2016 15:47
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