Dd1 moved to the village school a year ago, when I won an appeal. Prior to that she'd been at a school with 60 in the year group, and a healthy mix of girls and boys. Here she's girl #8 in the class of 32. Not sure that's entirely relevant!
Since she started there she's been keen on one boy in particular. That hasn't changed, and the boys mum has encouraged in (ok, my view!) with elaborate valentines presents, other presents at birthday and Christmas, and generally in chat. Dd1's diary (old note pad found on the floor when I blitzed their room last) was full of I want to kiss him but didn't dare etc. She's 10!!!!!
Tonight was the last straw, sort of. She and her sister, 8, went out on a circular ride on their scooters. It's a safe route, takes about 5 mins but goes past this boys house- and tonight she insisted they stood hanging around outside in case she saw him. They were out for half an hour before Ds went and told them to get home. They're now upstairs sobbing after being told I was disappointed at their not keeping to their word.
How do I move forward? While I'm fully aware that boys will come on the scene 10 just feels very young for this level of obsession.
Btw, I'm not trolling, just off upstairs to hug and remind them that they're still loved
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How do I handle this one! 10yo dd1 and obsession with a boy.
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InFlagranteDelicto · 20/04/2016 18:31
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