My DD is 11 and has just started at Secondary school in September. She has a Smart Phone. Before she had the phone we set some ground rules.
- No Phone usage after 6.30 in the evening
- We need to know the password Full Stop!
- We can and will check the phone and Messages
- No Lying/Being Rude on the Chats
- No Posting of Pictures of Other People without permission from them
- No Nude pictures or Privates to be taken
Since she did not keep her deal, we have had to take the phone off her for a few days. She has only just got her phone back.
We had a honest chat last night. And She said that we police her too much. Some of the points she raised were -
- None of her other friends parents check their phone or messages.
- None of them have to put their phone away after a certain time.
- None of them have their phone taken off them for not following the rules.
How do others approach this? Thoughts welcome.