DD is 12. We've never really done proper pocket money as in a set amount she gets each week, I usually give her odd bits and pieces as she needs it, but she's getting older, is out and about more and I want to make it more official
The weather is getting better so is spending time at the beach with her friends so asks for the odd £1 here and there for drinks and ice creams, she goes to the cinema occasionally, goes into town with her friends and buys endless lip balms sometimes they go for a milkshake on the way home from school, etc, etc.
I've been looking into a bank account where she can have an Electron card and I was going to transfer a set amount each week/month but what's a reasonable amount? £5 wouldn't even cover a trip to the cinema these days
What about clothes? She has set ideas on what she wants to wear these days, and providing they're weather and age appropriate my only real input is the debit card, would you buy the basics and then give a set £ clothing allowance and leave her to it?
She's not a mad spendthrift but I want to instill a bit more responsibility with regard to money, at the moment sometimes she seems to think I can go and peel a tenner off the money tree in the garden, so this will be once the £ is gone, it's gone
Or is it a bit too much too soon?
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Stinklebell · 19/03/2014 10:45
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