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How Do I Help Her??!!

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motherj1980 · 03/08/2022 21:00

I have a daughter who is 19. She has a stable job, partner and car with their own house. A month ago she miscarried. She really wanted the baby and was devastated. We all were. 2 days ago she's found out she's pregnant again. She has very mixed feelings so spoke to the councillor. She has decided that she's not ready to go through this and concentrate on her career and build up the money etc. very sensible. But I'm struggling with it. I know I sound selfish and I haven't said any of this to her but it's breaking my heart. I had a stillborn at 38 weeks so it probably stems from that. I respect her decision and of course I will be by her side but how do I sit there when they do the scan and the surgery etc. I want to be strong and be the mum I'm meant to be in this time. It's opened up all the scars and I'm just asking if anyone has been through similar and give some advice.
Much love xx

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PritiPatelsMaker · 07/08/2022 22:42

No experience but just wanted to say that I'm so sorry for your loss.

Hopefully you'll get someone along soon Flowers

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