Hi all,
I’m 30 and getting married in a few months. My parents have been divorced for 20+ years and don’t particularly get on but my mum has suggested that we get together for a coffee before the wedding so that my parents can meet each others’ long-term partners and also maybe clear the air a bit before my wedding. I think this is a good idea but I’m worried about what we’ll talk about! Any lighthearted but interested conversation topics or advice from others who have already been through this sort of thing would be gratefully received!
Thanks! :-)
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petalflowers95 · 15/07/2022 15:28
Gazelda · 17/07/2022 09:28
What about meeting up to discuss a particular aspect of the wedding? That'll give a focus on the conversation which isn't about the past.
"Let's all get together to choose wine for the meal"
Or
"Can you all help us write out the place cards. Should only take an hour if we all chip in"
You MUST meet in a public place.
Nutininutter · 16/07/2022 21:22
Oh god do it! My parents and their SO caused a huge brawl at my wedding, it was destroyed (still never had an apology).
I think it’s great they’re offering to do this. Honestly it doesn’t matter what they talk about as long as they’re keeping it light 😊
SkeletonFight · 16/07/2022 16:45
When you say "clear the air" that suggests that there is a bad history and feelings there. Is there and if so what is it?
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