Hi, I desperately need some advice please.
My son was bullied at school and moved schools because of it last year (year 8, age 13). My girlfriends son, same age, is friends with these boys and wants to have them over for his birthday for a sleep over. I do not want them in our home, but my gf insists her son should not miss out.
My son is due to be at his mums, so won't be here. It still doesn't sit right with me though.
We all live together, and share parental responsibility with our children's other parents.
- How will my son feel knowing they've been in his home? He will say it's OK if I speak to him about it, but that's the way he is. Never wants to make a fuss, or cause any issues.
- I'm not sure how I will feel having these children in our home, knowing what they did to my son.
- I could potentially have an issue with my sons mum if/when she finds out that these boys have been in my our home.
I don't want my step son to miss out. It feels really hard to deal with.
It feels like I'm being made to feel like I'm over reacting. The phrase that I keep being told is "it's not all about your son"
Any thoughts or advice? What would you do?