Hi all, I have one DD who is 2.5yo. She is loving, chatty, funny, intelligent, and in general I have no concerns about her development at all. She goes to nursery 3 days a week where she is happy and settled and apparently quite confident.
However, whenever I take her to toddler groups, etc. she never wants to leave my side. We have been going to the same (or at least similar) signing class for the last two years (granted some of it was online - thanks Covid!) and she seems to be less willing to be involved every week. Afterwards she proclaims to have loved it, before it she is excited, but while we are there she just wants to sit on my lap and hide. She will join in with some things but only if I am right there with her holding her hand.
The rational part of me thinks that this must be some sort of (very long!) phase, and I know that being shy is not a problem to be fixed, and she is very little still. But another part of me sees every other child there dancing around, joining in with the songs, going to sit on the blanket for storytime, etc. and I just wish that my DD would do the same.
I feel like I must be doing something wrong. In the back of my mind I am very aware that she was a March 2020 baby, she has no siblings or cousins, and we don't do lots of playdates, etc.
I guess I'm looking for some advice on how I can help her to feel more confident to join in with these things, should I start going to more groups, inviting people over for playdates, etc. or do I just let her be and see what happens?
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My toddler is shy when with me - how can I help?
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redteapot · 30/09/2022 13:55
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