Hi,
I current have 1 DD with another on the way and my parents have moved closer to us as they are getting on a bit etc.. and they just want to be closer to us which is lovely.
So now they have moved their old baby gates that they used at their previous house are pressure fit ones which were find when little one was well little. Now she is bigger we have a screwed in gate at our home which is some much more safe. For some reason my father is stubborn about putting a screwed in one in their house, even one that can be taken off the mounts when DD isn’t over.
So my question is is it unreasonable with me asking him to put a screw fitted gate in? I am more then happy to pay a decorator to come and fill in the holes professionally after the time comes to not need them anymore.
Thanks.
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AIBU for asking grandparents to have an appropriate stair gate at top of their stairs?
ColouringNinjaMaster · 22/09/2022 21:31
ColouringNinjaMaster · 22/09/2022 22:06
@Margo34
Sorry I missed that, she is 4, but since we have another one on the way I honestly thought it would make sense to have something in place for future sleepovers with the younger one.
My daughter is a pretty good kid, but since my parents just moved I don’t want her to forget herself and take a spill down the stairs since they are literally right next to the room she sleeps in.
Not only is it the light he moans about he then moms about having to get up to open the gate when she wakes up in the morning 🤣 He is getting proper grumpy in his old age.
ColouringNinjaMaster · 22/09/2022 23:09
@Isausernameavailable
paranoid yes, ungrateful never. I’m always grateful for my parents wanting to have my child over to spend time with her etc… She loves going to their house.
Luredbyapomegranate · 22/09/2022 22:43
OP it’s really not normal to have a stair gate for a 4 year old. She’s practically at school.
I suspect your Dad is over at granddad net complaining about his fusspot daughter, with some cause.
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