My DS is 3 weeks 2 days old today. He had a tongue tie cut at 2 weeks old
His feeding hasn’t particularly changed since having it cut but he does seem to be gaining a bit more weight & finally regained his birth weight of 3110g yesterday at 3weeks1day old
His feeding pattern is exhausting & worrying me at the same time. During the day he is on me almost constantly. It seems to be a vicious cycle -
- Boob (between 5 to 30 mins, not always super active feeds. Can fall asleep at the breast),
- Poops & Pees (almost immediately after finishing each time at the breast)
- Nappy change (which unsettles him),
- Back to boob (due to being unsettled after nappy change & rooting behaviour)
…..then the cycle starts again almost all day.
With barely a nap anywhere, I’d say perhaps 3x20 min naps here & there
He will sleep better during the night for a single 3-4 hour stretch after cluster feeding all day & then a further 2 or so hours after a middle of the night feed session that can last anywhere between an hour to three hours of the cycle above
So I guess my questions are
- Is this sort of feeding pattern normal? Health Visitor hasn’t really said much apart from yes it ‘can’ be normal… but after speaking to fellow Mum friends I don’t know anybody else who has experienced this level of cluster feeding. It has been like this since getting him home, so doesn’t seem to be a growth spurt either. I’m worried he is not getting enough milk from me & I’m not satisfying him
- He dirties his nappies almost constantly. And they can be explosive watery poops, to the point of shooting across the room there is such force behind them. Is this sort of pooping amount & consistency normal?!
- Will the lack of sleep affect him?
thank you x