I took my LO to nursery for her first settling in day today. It was just an hour and I stayed with her, but unfortunately I've left with a really bad feeling about our choice. First of all we weren't welcomed properly on arrival - we were left standing in the entrance for ages until someone came out and said we could just come in to the baby room when we were ready. I ended up introducing myself and my daughter to all the members of staff in the baby room as no-one volunteered their name or came over to say hi, other than the room leader. I had expected to be told today who her key worker would be and spend some time chatting with them, but the room leader said they tend to just see who the child gravitates towards and then decide who it will be. There was also some admin confusion around the lunches - I'd been given the impression we would be having the cooked lunch as part of the price but was told today there would be an additional charge for this. When I expressed surprise I got a shrug from the admin worker.
Both I and my partner liked the nursery when we looked round as we felt it was small and friendly, but today I had a completely different gut reaction - it felt disorganised and a bit chaotic, and I was in tears afterwards at the thought of leaving my daughter there. She seemed happy enough, but I expected that I was with her today.
AIBU and expecting too much, or does this sound like a bad settling experience? Many thanks for any advice.
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jojolondon81 · 02/10/2019 15:00
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