Hi
My children have started nursery this week. It is a private and good nursery according to the reports. However I feel like my children are just a nuisance to them.
Most of their class (and they are only 3!) is well advanced. My children are not that independent or advanced and one does not speak much yet. They are both still in nappies.
The nursery asked us to potty train them but that was when we enrolled and they were 2 so we said yes but did not anticipate that they just won't be ready by 3.
The problem I have with nursery is that they have no place to change their nappies as most children are potty trained. I had to change my child outside in the cold in my push chair. Also as my children are not happy to be left alone they called me and asked me to take them home because they cried. I am allowe to be there some of the time (they only go for short time anyway) and what I saw when I was there is new assiastant teacher every day and no one really spends too much time with my children but they are left to just wonder about and entertain themselves. This means that when I leave they want to go with me as they do not find it interesting or entertaining or I guess comfortable being alone.
They have never been in a nursery setting so they are not able to follow story telling or group activities.
The teachers do not particularly encourage me when I am there to even sit down or anything and I feel like I am a nuisance. On To of it all I have to run after my children as no one seems to look after them. One ended up wondering off alone outside up steep staircase so I had to tell them to get him.
I feel like it may be a good nursery for more advanced 3 year olds but I don't understand why do they not have provisions for children that are a bit behind.
The question is am I being too sensitive or should the nursery do more to help me and them to settle?
Thank you all so much!
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viio · 28/04/2017 07:20
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