I got an ADHD diagnosis privately last year from PsychiatryUK. It felt absolutely right to me, like things finally “make sense” after decades of struggle I just couldn’t understand.
Since then I am getting a lot of push back from my GP and 2 NHS psychiatrists (not because I sought a second opinion, just because the first one left). They argue that my symptoms are probably better explained by anxiety. I do experience anxiety, which is a common comorbidity, but I really feel that that underlying core of the issue which has led me repeatedly to psychiatric services over the years since I was a young child, is ADHD. They haven’t listened to our enquired about the ADHD symptoms. I’ve continually tried to bring them up.
I don’t know what to do. I’m finding it so hard to move on with my life with this impasse. I can’t get either the validation or treatment I need.
I can’t quite understand why this is happening. To me it’s so obvious and undeniable that it’s ADHD. But my psychiatrist had said things like “you wouldn’t be able to sit in this chair for the appointment if it was ADHD” (I do have a problem with chairs, it probably became more obvious towards the end of the appointment, but even if not that this is a ridiculous thing to suggest as a single criterion for a socialised adult woman) and also “it would have been picked up when you were little” (but really, would it, in a 5 year old girl in the early 90s who had a complicating comorbidity??).
I am not taking this well. I really need help, but the right help. I can’t stick with the SSRIs they have given me when I know they have it all wrong. I tried but I just can’t do it because it all feels so wrong plus the awful side effects.
Why is this happening. It just feels like a strange sort of sexist bias, combined with lack of expertise on their part. I genuinely seem to know a lot more about ADHD from what I can tell. I can’t make sense of it, I’m angry, I can’t stop thinking about it and I don’t know what to do.
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