Last month I had a mmc. After ERCP I also needed medical management after retained products. It's taken 7 weeks from finding out that the heartbeat had stopped to being told the "good news" that my scan is clear and I've had a negative test. It's been insanely stressful on top of the heartache.
I haven't even had a period yet. I swing from being adamant I'm never ever letting myself get pregnant again as I cannot possibly endure this again to "what if", "I should be x number of weeks now".
This is my first miscarriage. It was troubled from the start having been diagnosed with a haematoma. I have two daughters 6 and 10, healthy pregnancies. All three pregnancies I've been fortunate to conceive first time. I feel I should be grateful for what I have, I am, I'm so blessed but I'm worried I'll never shake off the want for a third.
I'm 32, dh is 40. Dd1 is starting secondary school in September, dd2 is starting KS2. It'd mean yet another academic year between them, less in common etc. See, I'm trying to talk myself out of it.
How did you know? How could you be sure either way? I appreciate I've "only" had one miscarriage so maybe I'm blinkered.
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dippyegg32 · 22/01/2021 17:41
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