Hi , I just wanted to share my story so far. Just I've been looking on mumsnet myself for reassurance the past 4 weeks & thought someone may find it helpful.
I come off the mini pill mid September (sorry I cant recall the exact date but around 17th). My hubby and I decided we were going to try for another baby (we already have a son and everything had went great with my pregnancy that time round other than a bit spotting near the end of the pregnancy). I hadnt had a period but on 17th October ( around 4 weeks later) I started what I believed was my period and so popped a tampon in and went about my day, 2 hours later I checked and bleeding had stopped. I had a weird feeling and for some reason i done a pregnancy test. It was faint but was positive. 😮 I couldn't believe it and was a little freaked out as I hadnt even had a period after stopping my pill. Anyhow that night and the for the next 2/3 days i was in quite a bit of pain, my back was killing me and I had really bad cramp (the kind where you expect the oncoming of a heavy flow) . I took a clear blue test to check I was definitely pregnant and sure enough it was positive. I rang the doctors and they completed a form to be passed to midwives and someone would be in touch....
A few days after this I just couldn't get excited as I had a really bad feeling about the pregnancy I started spotting which ranged for light brown some days to light pink others and I passed a tiny clot one day. This most likely was implantation bleeding but the clot freaked me some.10 days after calling the doctors I still hadnt heard from the midwives so I rang around trying to contact them. 2 days later my midwife got in touch to arrange my appointment (telephone appointment due to covid19 restrictions). I told her about my spotting and passing a tiny clot. She basically said there was nothing g they could do until I was 7-8weeks so we booked I my appointment and I began to count the days until I could get this pregnancy confirmed for sure. Spotting grew heavier and a few days later I had light bleeding (enough to lightly fill a sanitary towel if left all day) this happened for 2 days before I stopped bleeding altogether and I was sure I had/was miscarrying but whenever I had free time I found myself reading up on success stories about how this could all be perfectly normal. I was taking pregnancy tests daily now and getting darker positives. I didn't know what to think!
I at 6 weeks (what I believed to be 6 weeks as i'd now known I was pregnant for at least 4) I tried to book a private scan but on the day of the scan the company rang to say they couldn't give confirmation of a miscarriage if that's what I was looking for as what I'd see would be the same at this point if my body had or hadnt been miscarrying. To confirm I'd need bloods taken from doctor at 24-48hr intervals to check my hcg levels were going down.
Then last night I suspect 6 weeks and 4 days later I started passing more blood with clots (very dark blood but more like a heavy period - still I've had heavier). I then noticed this morning I bled clots but then passed some clear water. 😔
I'm still bleeding now and now I'm much more sure I have miscarried - although I still have to wait for my midwife appointment to ask for bloods to be taken.
I'm sure if the world hadnt been turned upside down by covid19 I could have had bloods taken last week or so to confirm all this (I'd rang and rn you cant get doctors appointments for bloods etc without referral from midwife). The stress of not knowing for sure if I was in fact having a miscarriage has been intense.
Still not through it all yet but I hope this may help somebody else. I will update once I've had blood works etc to confirm it all. Love to anyone who is going through similar or worse scenarios right now.
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Early miscarriage - 3 weeks to 6/7weeks. Clots, spotting, light bleeding , bad feelings
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Mamofboys · 14/11/2020 10:46
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