Dd is 13 and is very into gay rights
We were in the car talking the other day and she said that she didn't want any children and I said that's fine but when she's older she needed to make sure she discussed that with her partner so they were happy with that too
She said -I'm so glad you said partner because everyone else always says boyfriend and that's a big presumption
Having been in an EA relationship myself with her father I couldn't give two hoots who my dc end up with as long as they treat each other well -and i've told her that, but I also don't want her to to be unhappy through high school -she gets called a lesbian as an insult and I do think its harder for girls than boys in that respect
There is a boy in her year that came out and no one batted an eyelid
I have no idea if I'm handling this right or not bit I'm very aware that feelings at 13 are very real -she hasn't told me she's gay or bi but she does say she sees people as people rather than a gender which I agree with, I have friends of both sexes but physically I'm attracted to men
I want her to be a free thinker but want to protect her at the same time
Sorry for rambling
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17leftfeet · 05/01/2014 12:43
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