What should we consider when making the decision? We had 3 without thinking about it a great deal as we both always wanted 3! Things stand like this so far:
- we have a big enough car already
- we do not have a big enough house, but a move is planned for the next couple of years
- I get spd, though I think it is relatively mild compared to others
- I would need a 4th section (have read a lot about this and am fairly happy with the risks - not that much more than last time)
- I can't stop thinking about it. I am worried I will really regret it if we don't.
- dh is happy to stop at 3, but will consider another (he is very hands on, involved dad and will want and love the baby once if we go for it).
- Money and time! How expensive will it be? How much will we be run off our feet? Will we have time for each if them as individuals??
- everyone I know who was 1 of 4 had a fabulous childhood and comes from a close family - obviously this makes me think that 4 is the ultimate!
- we are happy as we are and I worry about messing with it.
- I am early 30's, so age isn't an issue. Dc are nearly 5, nearly 4 and nearly 2, 2 boys and a girl (girl in the middle).