So we've just had a failed first cycle. No frosties. I'm 35 and had 10 eggs collected, 5 mature, 3 fertilised, 2 made it to day 5, 1 early blast transferred, the other taken to day 6 but the outer edge has an issue so it wasn't good enough to freeze.
We luckily have 2 more goes on the NHS so I'm cracking on with that. Can't get a review meeting with our consultant until 18 Dec so I'm going to see if I can get a call booked and also call the embryologist to discuss our results.
Generally, the more info I have and a proactive plan then the better I feel. DH doesn't want to talk about the next cycle. We've recently found out that his Dad has a really rare and aggressive cancer and his prognosis isn't good.
Starting to feel some resentment towards my DH as he's made us wait so long to try for a baby. I'm 35 now and wanted to start from being 30. Just feels like life's permanently on hold and all we do is work work work.
Has anyone else recently gone through a failed cycle. What happened on yours and what are you planning to do next?
As we're not discussing IVF with family and friends, I've found MN really supportive and I hope this thread might help me and others in a similar position.
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Failed IVF #1. What next?
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FingersXssd83 · 09/11/2018 08:26
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