Been ttc for 18 months (not as long as some, I know) We have unexplained secondary infertility. I am finding it hard to cope with this as a “diagnosis”. I can’t get my head around everything looking perfect yet still not being able to get pregnant. We were just told it would “most likely happen again because it’s happened before” and that there was nothing else the clinic could do for us.
Today, I watched a Facebook live video that was posted on a ttc group of a woman doing a pregnancy test JUST so I could remember what it felt like to see two lines appear. My cousin, who is a vile person, is pregnant after an accident with her on/off boyfriend. An old friend of mine, who slept with an ex on the night of her hen party and had an affair with someone she met on Twitter for her entire marriage, had a baby after not trying. A girl I know got pregnant with a guy she had only known for three weeks and who hadn’t even met her other kids yet. Someone else I know smoked through her entire pregnancy with all four of her easily conceived children. We work hard, do all the right things, we’re good people. Why is this happening to us?
I don’t have any hope any more. I had a bit this month as I had a HyCoSy last month and was told this can increase fertility. Af is due in a few days and I’m super moody and emotional so I know I’m out already. Everyone around me is getting pregnant on their first try or without evening trying. They haven’t got a clue what an opk is or when their fertile week is or what a SIS involves.
I’ve been trying to stay positive but sometimes it’s hard and I know when af shows up this weekend, I’m going to just break down. Anyway, I just needed a rant. Sending good vibes to all of you
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Bubblegum89 · 14/03/2018 22:11
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