I have been reading comments on another thread and it has raised some questions for me. I ask these from a position seeking to understand different perspectives and consider how that changes my thoughts and behaviour.
I consider myself a feminist. I am white. I recognise that women of colour (is that just a US term or is it the preferred term in UK also now? If not then apologies, no wish to offend) experience racism and sexism. Both are wrong. Dealing with racism and sexism together must compound the difficulties WoC experience make life - I get that. What else do I need to know? What is it about modern feminism that excludes WoC? How can I behave differently to ensure my feminism includes WoC? Any recommended reading, for a UK rather than US perspective?
Feminism: chat
Intersectionality and inclusive feminism
Amelanchier · 19/04/2022 13:15
KylieKoKo · 29/04/2022 14:15
Only "they" want change? Here's the thing. The majority group needs to decide that change is wanted. Until then, no matter how much minority groups create awareness, write books, agitate, and protest, nothing changes.
Exactly and I think @Lovelyricepudding's post has exposed a big issue. Their feminism doesn't want to change things for black women enough for them to make the effort. Therefore their feminism does not include me.
Lovelyricepudding · 29/04/2022 12:16
The information is out there. I think a question is Why do you think black women should relive trauma when you could just read a book?
Because they want change? And that requires awareness raising? For people who don't currently care enough to read a book to start to care enough to create change? To suggest reading a book is at least a positive action but better would be a set of easy read developed resources to direct people to rather than lecture people who are taking that first step towards you. Is this uneven, unfair and placing extra load on oppressed groups? Absolutely! Bit I am not sure how else you do it?
KylieKoKo · 29/04/2022 12:23
@Lovelyricepudding you have to understand that black people have been talking and raising awareness for years. If white people don't care enough to read a book they aren't going to listen. You're acting like you don't think black women have tried. They have but perhaps you haven't been listening.
VladmirsPoutine · 24/04/2022 11:35
If you've ever managed to rent or buy a house, complete college or a degree, work out what a balanced diet should look like, book an appointment etc then finding the answers to your questions is within your scope of abilities.
The thing is, a lot of white women claim to want to become better 'allies' by asking what they can/should do in an attempt to display empathy. It's just a very roundabout way of making Black and brown women do more work. It's mentally taxing and oftentimes their response will be to 'debate' on the actual work of acclaimed Black feminists.
As a simple starting point I always tell anyone white who wants to learn more to dip their toes in by reading a book by Reni Eddo Lodge - Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People About Race.
greasyshoes · 28/04/2022 01:07
(is that just a US term or is it the preferred term in UK also now? If not then apologies, no wish to offend)
It was a US term, the reason being that "coloured" is considered offensive in the United States due to its strong association with racial segregation and discrimination. The term "people of colour" thus came about as a more polite and acceptable expression.
It was never used in the UK, because we never had any need for such a term. We never had racial segregation, and horrific signs plastered over businesses referring to "Coloured". However, the British public loves to binge-watch American TV, and they love to binge-read American politics. The British people often picture themselves as starring in some annoying sitcom. That's the reason why British people imitate Americans in every aspects of their lives, adopting their annoying habits such as driving disgustingly massive SUVs, or using expressions like "people with colour" which don't actually have any historical basis in this country.
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KylieKoKo · 28/04/2022 12:35
@greasyshoes I've been called coloured in a derogatory way many times in the UK ....
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