Just reflecting on all the recent press about misogyny and male violence against women. The argument many men give is that they are not like that, though don’t understand what ‘like that means’. So the new campaign out in Scotland is a refreshing change.
My experiences from age 5:
- on way to toilet age 5, man is trespassing in school with his penis in his hand. I am alone and he asks me where the toilets are and can I take him. Later, during police interview female officer tells me off for referring to his penis as a willy and not using the proper word, penis. I am 5 years old.
- on school bus, age 8. Lorry driver out of window starts to mouth the word ‘f#ck’ and miming kisses at me.
- age 16 on a night out, man rubs against me on the dance floor with his erect penis. Kept following me around and wouldn’t leave me.
- age 20 at a party and my female friend tells me someone asking for me upstairs. I go up and there is a guy we know who them locks door and says he won’t open it unless I kiss him.
- age 27, news get backs to me that a guy at work in a management position tells everyone he doesn’t like me and is going to make my life (at work) hard
- age 35, group of us talking about violence against women and male in group says we’ve nothing to worry about because we’re a bit old so no one would bother us
These are all just everyday experiences that come to mind. Others too but I wanted to share. What has happened to you? Why don’t you share? Sending everyone hugs xx