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        <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:27:46 +0000</pubDate>

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                <title><![CDATA[Referral code for Monzo]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/promo-codes-bargains/5576489-referral-code-for-monzo</link>
                <description><![CDATA[[[https://go.skimresources.com?id=470X1716091&amp;xs=1&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fjoin.monzo.com%2Fc%2Fp4jjlxrk&amp;sref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mumsnet.com%2Fapi%2Fv3%2Ftalk%2Fthreads%2F5576489%2Fedit https://join.monzo.com/c/p4jjlxrk]]

If you’re looking to join Monzo, please use my link! Up to £50 on offer too. Xx]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Promo codes and bargains</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Institutional bullying from school]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/special_needs/5576488-institutional-bullying-from-school</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hi everyone. Wondering if anyone else has been through this. One of my children has SEN and I've been trying to get them an EHCP before they transition to high school as they will struggle. Their primary school refused 4 previous requests for an EHCP to be made and had to be dragged kicking and screaming to make an IEP for the child. I have reasonable adjustments under the Equality Act as I am disabled and cannot participate in meetings in the usual way. I had to put a stop to a zoom meeting the school arranged when staff demanded I speak live during the call, started firing many questions at me, overloading me with masses of solely verbal information (no prior questions or information sent ahead of the meeting so preparing for it was not possible) and not waiting for me to type my responses. The tone of the staff was sneering and aggressive demanding a response while I was typing. I believe this was all intentional to cause me as much stress as possible to make me go away and not pursue the EHCP application. Has anyone else been through this? Were you able to enlist the help of a disability advocate? I don't want my child's education to suffer because the school are more concerned with being hostile and using bureaucratic blocks instead of helping my child. Thanks in advance.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>SN children</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Toddler has boil-like spots on feet and toes, insect bites or not?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5576487-toddler-has-boil-like-spots-on-feet-and-toes-insect-bites-or-not</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Toddler came out in these what I thought were insect bites. Then noticed they were more boil like and appearing on her toes feet what do you reckon they are?

She hasn’t been poorly or phased by them. Doctor didn’t seem to know or seem too concerned - just a bit of a mystery and quite curious as to what they might be.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:21:27 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[What’s your strategy for stopping? Mine clearly hasn’t worked.]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/weight-loss-injections/5576486-whats-your-strategy-for-stopping-mine-clearly-hasnt-worked</link>
                <description><![CDATA[So I had to stop MJ about 8 weeks ago. The first couple of weeks were ok, but then appetite came back with a vengeance. I’ve put on over half a stone in 6 weeks!
I’m hoping to start again, but think I need to rethink my strategy.
Up until now I’ve just eaten when I’m hungry and stopped when I’m full. Over time I lost around 3st (pretty slowly but I was fine with that) and my BMI had just dropped below 30 when I had to stop. 
So now I’m thinking I need to either be on these meds for life or alter my strategy. 
Obviously when I’m off the meds my appetite goes right back to normal and I eat too much. So what do people do? Do I need a different strategy when I’m on the meds to help me transition coming off? Do I just accept I need them forever?
I’ve really enjoyed not having food rule my life but as soon as I’m off the meds, I’m ravenous. I’m aware I’m eating more but, because I haven’t had to think about it on MJ, I’m just eating until comfortably full, as I was on the meds, which is actually probably more than I was eating before I started them!]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Weight loss injections/treatments</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[What should I expect during recovery after facelift surgery?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/general_health/5576485-what-should-i-expect-during-recovery-after-facelift-surgery</link>
                <description><![CDATA[*Facelift surgery* is a cosmetic procedure designed to address sagging skin and changes in facial contours associated with ageing. While the procedure itself is important, recovery is an equally significant part of the process. Understanding what to expect during healing can help patients prepare properly and have more realistic expectations.

*What to Expect Immediately After Surgery*
During the first few days, it is common to experience swelling, bruising, tightness, and mild discomfort around the treated areas. Your surgeon may provide specific instructions regarding medications, wound care, sleeping position, and activities during this period.

*The First Week of Recovery*
The first week generally focuses on rest and protecting the healing tissues. Patients may need to avoid strenuous activity and keep their head elevated while sleeping to help manage swelling. Follow-up appointments are also important for monitoring the healing process.

*Managing Swelling and Bruising*
Swelling and bruising can look more noticeable during the early stages but typically improve gradually. It is important not to massage or apply pressure to the treated areas unless specifically instructed by your surgeon.

*Returning to Normal Activities*
The timeline for returning to work, exercise, and other activities varies from person to person. Light daily activities may be resumed gradually, while strenuous exercise and heavy lifting usually need to be avoided until the surgeon confirms that it is safe.

*Taking Care of Healing Skin*
Keeping the surgical area clean and following recommended skincare instructions can support recovery. Avoid introducing new or harsh skincare products while the skin is healing unless they have been approved by your healthcare provider.

*When Will You See the Final Results?*
The initial changes may be visible soon after surgery, but swelling can temporarily affect the appearance of the face. The results become more apparent as the swelling decreases and the tissues settle. Full healing can take several months, depending on the individual.

*When Should You Contact Your Surgeon?*
Some swelling and discomfort are expected after a facelift, but unusual symptoms should not be ignored. Increasing pain, significant redness, drainage, fever, or other concerning changes should be reported to your healthcare provider promptly.

*Final Thoughts*
Recovery after a facelift is a gradual process that requires patience and proper aftercare. Following your surgeon's instructions, attending follow-up appointments, protecting your healing skin, and allowing enough time for recovery can all contribute to a smoother healing experience.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:17:23 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>General health</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Best microwave meal (family of 4)]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5576484-best-microwave-meal-family-of-4</link>
                <description><![CDATA[We are staying in a beautiful treehouse next weekend. I cannot wait! 
it has 2 hobs, a toaster and a microwave. I don’t want to cook really, and we will be going out for food on the Saturday. 
I was thinking maybe a good Waitrose or M&amp;S ready meal that I could microwave. Any recommendations? It’s my birthday the day before we go, so I don’t really want to meal prep. 
I could do cheeses and salads etc, but I think on the Friday I would like something warm to eat.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[What&#039;s your ideal baby / toddler changing bag? What do you like and dislike about your current set-up?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/changing_bags_chat/5576483-whats-your-ideal-baby-toddler-changing-bag-what-do-you-like-and-dislike-about-your-current-set-up</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hi mummies,

*How do you carry everything when out and about with your little one?*
I'm a mum to a toddler and after lots of days out and travelling with her (often solo abroad), I’ve become very aware of how much difference the right bag and packing setup can make.

I’m doing some early-stage research into how parents carry their own and their little ones’ things when out and about — what bags you use, how your needs change as they get older, and what works well (or drives you mad!).

If you have a baby or toddler, I’d be really grateful if you could spare *5 minutes* to complete the short survey below and share your experience please. Responses are *anonymous*, unless you choose to leave your contact details for a follow-up conversation.
Survey is linked below.

There are no right or wrong answers, and I’m genuinely interested in hearing about what you do today — including any frustrations with your current setup.
Every response is hugely valuable. Thank you so much!]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Changing bags</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Ham pr disasters 36! The clap backs continue!]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/the_royal_family/5576482-ham-pr-disasters-36-the-clap-backs-continue</link>
                <description><![CDATA[A continuation of our continuing discussion of our favourite private citizens! 😁]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:03:21 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>The royal family</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[To moan about my shit day with toddler]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576481-to-moan-about-my-shit-day-with-toddler</link>
                <description><![CDATA[3 year old recently started a new swimming class next to a trampoline park I took him to in the summer so after the lesson he wanted to go. I thought … why not. FML.

It cost £15 plus £3 each for socks so over £20 and all he’s done is whinge and tantrum 

ffs]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 10:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>AIBU?</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[To tell you that Jehovahs Witnesses have a list of people not to call on again?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576478-to-tell-you-that-jehovahs-witnesses-have-a-list-of-people-not-to-call-on-again</link>
                <description><![CDATA[The Jehovahs Witnesses come to my house every 6 weeks or so. It's annoying for various reasons but lets just say I work nights and am sometimes asleep in the day. The last time they came I told them not to come back and was told I'd be put on a list, like I've been naughty or something.

They've been deviating from their usual pattern of Saturday morning recently and they've come back today, they bypassed my house!! There really is a List! So if you don't want to be disturbed then ask to go on the list 😁]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Recommendations of things to do in Krakow in October half term?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/holidays/5576476-recommendations-of-things-to-do-in-krakow-in-october-half-term</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Excited to have booked our flights here. Looking for things to do and places to eat. 2 adults and ds14 and dd10. TIA]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Holidays</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Would the father’s age be a stupid reason to have an abortion?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576475-would-the-fathers-age-be-a-stupid-reason-to-have-an-abortion</link>
                <description><![CDATA[First of all, please be nice and respectful. I’m also staunchly pro-choice; this is more about me being an overthinker and chronic worrier than anything else.
The father will be 70 by the time the baby is born. It’s a transactional relationship, which you can shame me for if you like, but we’ve been having a great time together. I’m financially independent and earn a good living as a foreign English teacher in China. The pregnancy obviously wasn’t planned.
The main reason I’m considering an abortion is that my child would be virtually guaranteed to lose his dad at a relatively young age, which doesn’t feel right to me. There are also possible pregnancy complications associated with advanced paternal age, as well as an increased risk of health issues for the baby for the same reason. I’ve always said that, if I were ever going to have children, I’d want them to have the best life possible. This doesn’t feel like that.
The dad has said he’ll support me and our child financially if I choose to keep the baby, so I don’t have to worry about that. I also have my family’s full, unconditional support back in the UK.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:52:15 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Hotels in Krakow with interconnecting/family rooms?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5576474-hotels-in-krakow-with-interconnectingfamily-rooms</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Posting for traffic - can anyone recommend a hotel in central Krakow with guaranteed family or interconnecting rooms? Struggling to find one for 4 nights, late October for 2 X adults and 2 X children. TIA]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Work meetings clashing with school pick-up are making me anxious]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/work/5576473-work-meetings-clashing-with-school-pick-up-are-making-me-anxious</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I have received several meetings that clash with the time that I need to collect my kids. Where possible I have tried to make it work and have my husband collect  but there is a couple that I can’t make work due to him being away. I will tell work I can’t make it and will need to leave early but I feel so anxious that it will reflect badly on me and hate that I have been put in this position. 

feels that however hard I work, sometimes it just can’t be enough. 

dont know what I am looking for really, just want to rant and get my frustrations out. I hate that this needs to be an issue.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:51:48 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Anthropic safety researcher says more than 10% chance AI &#039;could kill all humans&#039;]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576472-anthropic-safety-researcher-says-more-than-10-chance-ai-could-kill-all-humans</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I detest AI and this isn't helping! AIBU to be a tad concerned?
[[https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ckgwy1k42w4o More than 10% chance AI 'could kill all humans', Anthropic researcher says - BBC News]]
Not that there's anything I can do about it, apart from continuing to not use AI where possible...]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>AIBU?</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[What makes you feel like you look good?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5576471-what-makes-you-feel-like-you-look-good</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I am in a rut and am fed up. For years I have given up on trying to look nice. Now I just go about my life feeling and looking like an ugly slob. It’s been so long, I’m not even sure how to make an effort. What do you do that makes you feel like you look nice, put together, confident?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:46:13 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[AIBU to think many people of the UK lack confidence in the current government?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576470-aibu-to-think-many-people-of-the-uk-lack-confidence-in-the-current-government</link>
                <description><![CDATA[AIBU to think that the majority of people in the UK don't have any confidence in the current government, with an unelected Prime Minister at its' helm?

Would people be willing to vote on a petition to have a parliamentary debate on this matter, to encourage this government to have a snap General Election? This would give the people - the tax payers - as say in who is running the country. Democracy in action, if you will.

AIBU - people are happy with Labour and the unelected PM

YANBU - people have a democratic right to vote for who they want to run the country and right now, the majority don't have confidence in the current government.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:45:29 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[AIBU to ask if people will still go to Glastonbury after the price rise]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5576468-aibu-to-ask-if-people-will-still-go-to-glastonbury-after-the-price-rise</link>
                <description><![CDATA[To ask if you will still go to Glastonbury with the price rise?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:42:22 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Have you had a relationship that ended by “drifting apart”]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5576466-have-you-had-a-relationship-that-ended-by-drifting-apart</link>
                <description><![CDATA[In all my past relationships ended because of some definite factor or event. So I’m curious as what “drifting apart” looks like.

Has anyone been dumped after a slow starvation of a relationship - or even been the one to slowly withdraw? I keep hearing people say “we drifted apart” but what does that actually mean? Is there usually someone else involved?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[AIBU to think this Scottish school uniform trend on TikTok had got out of hand?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/secondary/5576465-aibu-to-think-this-scottish-school-uniform-trend-on-tiktok-had-got-out-of-hand</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hey everyone. Like a lot of folks here I'm a bit of TikTok addict. It started during lockdown so not my fault, but there you go!

I need to get this off my chest because it is driving me absolutely mad. Has anyone else seen 'Scottish school uniform' videos on TikTok? I am honestly utterly baffled and, frankly, disgusted by what passes for school attire these days.


Since high schools here in Scotland went back after lockdown I've noticed uniform standards fall off a cliff. I've two wee lads long off high school so it doesn't affect me yet but it's actually incredible what's going on here actually. 

The  Scottish uniform trend on TikTok is getting worse all the time. The ludicrously lax uniform rules in a lot, but not all high schools in Scotland I think has gone too far now. 

I have family and friends  that have teenagers in high school right now so I'm fully aware of how outrageously bad the uniforms have gotten since lockdown. Not only when they are out and about, but actually when in school (more later on that) they are on most occasions taking the proverbial with the uniforms. But it's also gone crazy on TikTok. Wearing "skirts" that are literally quite useless in terms being a functioning item of clothing, they literally disappear under the blazer. Little shorts like hot pants. Practical items of clothing along with blouses that appear painted on in tandem with either long black stockings, frilly white ankle socks or black see through tights that all more suitable for clubbing at weekends. 

Some of the girls uniforms are like something out of Ann Summers catalogue some years ago. I'm not exaggerating. That's from what I see and anecdotal evidence I've been provided. I actually despair. On my own school run and on to work I pass several high schools and it's actually difficult to believe what you see heading in through their gates.

It's skirts that make my blood boil. I think they're the shortest on the planet. I'm not kidding. It’s completely inappropriate for a school environment. Or anywhere actually.

Whatever happened to looking neat, respectable, and ready to learn? Uniforms are meant to be a leveller so kids aren't competing over fashion and labels. Now it's turned into a competitive social media circus.

Uniform in Scottish high schools are worn till age 18. So the under 16 ban won't affect them. The endless stream of schoolgirls (the rotten algorithm of the app is to blame) cavorting in provocative dances while miming to filthy rap lyrics is a menace. Personally I hate them but the app just keeps throwing them at you. I fully support the ban, sooner the better.

It's like a competition. Each day it seems the girls spice up their uniform to better yesterdays effort. Even #ootd is now tacked on some uploads. The peer pressure must be incredible, relentless and controlling.

Personally I blame the schools. A lot of these videos are filmed in the school. Can you believe that? Because a lot of Scottish schools also now have official TikTok accounts so they either don't care or don't know.

How can any school in all honesty be happy with girls in uniform skirts that are literally like shrunken napkins? In TikTok world they seem oblivious to it all somehow.

The high schools in Scotland need an immediate clamp down in uniform standards. Because the first rule is no rules, they have become literally a daily fashion parade. And because the schools it seems have no limits, neither do the girls. This clampdown hopefully in turn will lessen, though probably not eradicate, what is becoming an out of control trend. I suspect one girl sees another girl getting more attention on her account in her uniform that has been pushed beyond words, then it's likely she will follow suit. It's a doom loop for the girls. 

Sorry for the long rant. But I think it needed to be said. Schools need to be stricter on uniforms. Can they not see how provocative they've become in Scotland in recent times?? Please bring back skirts nearer the knees!

Am I just a miserable old dinosaur, or is anyone else looking at this absolute joke of a trend and feeling despair for the future?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Childminder v pre school]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/childcare/5576464-childminder-v-pre-school</link>
                <description><![CDATA[recently moved our 2 year old from nursery to childminder as she never took to a nursery setting and I think she prefers it.

shes an autumn baby so wouldn’t be able to start at her local pre school until she’s almost 4 (would be pre school in September 2028 and start reception in September 2029).

I don’t want her to get bored at childminders but also don’t want to keep moving her around.

She’s quite a shy child and I’m worried that if she doesn’t start pre school until 4 then half the kids that will be in her school year will have already been there a year and she’ll find it harder to make friends, but then would be even harder if she didn’t do the pre school for a year before reception. 

wondering whether it’s better to:

a) keep her at childminder until she’s almost 4 and then her local primary school pre school for a year

b) move her to a nursery (not attached to a school) from age 3-4 and then pre school from age 4 for a year 

c) move her to nursery from age 3 until she starts school reception 

any views welcome thank you :)]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Paid childcare</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Looking for parents’ experiences of changing bags and packing for outings]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/changing_bags_chat/5576463-looking-for-parents-experiences-of-changing-bags-and-packing-for-outings</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hi mummies,

*How do you carry everything when out and about with your little one? *

I'm a mum to a toddler and after lots of days out and travelling with her (often solo abroad), I’ve become very aware of how much difference the right bag and packing setup can make.

I’m doing some early-stage research into how parents carry their own and their little ones’ things when out and about — what bags you use, how your needs change as they get older, and what works well (or drives you mad!).

If you have a baby or toddler, I’d be really grateful if you could spare *5 minutes* to complete the short survey below and share your experience please. Responses are *anonymous*, unless you choose to leave your contact details for a follow-up conversation.

Survey link: Click here

There are no right or wrong answers, and I’m genuinely interested in hearing about what you do today — including any frustrations with your current setup.

Every response is hugely valuable. Thank you so much! ]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Changing bags</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Advice wanted on knee replacement recovery and returning to work]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/thirty_days_only/5576461-advice-wanted-on-knee-replacement-recovery-and-returning-to-work</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I'm having replacement knee surgery next week, either partial or full depending on what surgeon sees when he opens it up.
I'm after any advice e.g. leading up to surgery, recovery and any post surgery tips etc, from fellow MNers who've undergone the same. 
I'm 60 and plan to go back to work 6/8 weeks after, I work in a school science tower block of 4 floors and our lift is only a goods lift, so I'll be expected to go up and down the floors several times a day and I'm wondering if this will be feasible so soon after surgery?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Labrador-proof bin for the kitchen, does it exist?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/the_doghouse/5576460-labrador-proof-bin-for-the-kitchen-does-it-exist</link>
                <description><![CDATA[We’ve been putting our rubbish into a small work top bin then decanting into the big bin which we keep in another room. Is there a bin which which would stop our Hoover Lab getting into it? We put our food waste into the food bin but occasionally bits get put into the main bin.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>The doghouse</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Seeking parents for research on headphone durability for children with ASN]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/thirty_days_only/5576459-seeking-parents-for-research-on-headphone-durability-for-children-with-asn</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hi everyone,
I’m carrying out an independent research study looking at the use, durability, damage and replacement of headphones used by children and young people with complex additional support needs.
The research started after I became aware of one family with two non-speaking autistic teenagers who use headphones extensively as part of their everyday routine. Since 2023, their mum has had to replace 31 pairs of headphones, costing £991.48 in total.
That is obviously just one family, so I don’t want to assume their experience is representative of anyone else. What I’m trying to establish is whether repeated headphone breakage is something other families experience — or whether it is actually relatively unusual.
I’m particularly interested in things such as how often headphones are used, how frequently they need replacing, what tends to break (headband, hinges, earcups, cable, charging port etc.), approximate replacement costs, and whether durability seems to vary between different brands and models.
I’d also really like to hear from parents whose children use headphones heavily but don’t break them, because those experiences are just as important to the research. I don't want to recruit only people who have experienced failures and accidentally skew the results.
The study uses a short questionnaire of around 10–15 minutes. It is for adults aged 18+ only; children and young people do not participate directly. I am not asking for children's names, schools, exact dates of birth, diagnoses or other identifying information.
I’m an independent designer and researcher rather than a university researcher. The study is self-directed and unfunded, and I want to be transparent that the findings may eventually help inform future product-design and development work. There is no product being promoted, sold or tested as part of this research.
If the Mumsnet moderation team are happy for me to recruit here, I’d be very grateful to hear from parents and carers with relevant experience.
Thank you,
Stuart Wilson
Independent Designer &amp; Researcher
Scotland, UK]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Please help improve this kitchen design]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/property/5576458-please-help-improve-this-kitchen-design</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Please help improve this kitchen design. Kitchen table to go in centre. Other party of room will have wood burning stove and small sofa. House is old farmhouse]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 09:09:27 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Property/DIY</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[What clothing brands do you wear? Do you thrift?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/style_and_beauty/5576457-what-clothing-brands-do-you-wear-do-you-thrift</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hello just wondering what clothing brands do you guys wear and I love to know if there are any unheard of brands out there! 

I am a Primark girl and the odd supermarket. 

Thrifting wise I have been put off...
I noticed that a George dress was put on sale for £8.99 used with slight bobbling and is it me prices have gone up.?

Please be nice. 

Love to hear from you lot]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:55:32 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Style and beauty</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Christmas Tesco savers]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/cost_of_living/5576456-christmas-tesco-savers</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Has anyone done this before? 

I have £11.50 club card vouchers. Do they automatically get transferred to my Christmas savers account?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Cost of living</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Cream/ ivory rose for north-east facing bed]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/gardening/5576455-cream-ivory-rose-for-north-east-facing-bed</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I'm on the hunt for a cream/ ivory/ very pale yellow shrub rose for the end of a north-east facing bed.  It gets a few hours of morning sun each day so not completely shaded, but plants in that bed tend to grow stretching towards the light so needs to be pretty upright/ sturdy.  I have a Lichfield Angel in the same bed already which is very happily growing but I have to tie into an obelisk or it flops forward!

Any suggestions?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Gardening</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Extreme sickness following dose increase (Weygovy)]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/weight-loss-injections/5576454-extreme-sickness-following-dose-increase-weygovy</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I’ve been on Weygovy for about three months with minimal side effects but waning suppression. I upped to 1mg and 2 weeks ago increased to 0.75 and then last Wednesday did the full 1mg. Well suffice to say I won’t be doing that again as  since Saturday I have felt sick as a dog - really Nauseous, tummy cramps, unable to eat anything except a few mouthfuls of dry toast as anything else and I’m physically sick plus constant sulphur burps and diarrhoea. 
Has anyone else experienced this after an increase? Please tell me it doesn’t go on for much longer. It’s really put me off dosing again, even on a smaller amount.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Weight loss injections/treatments</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Make food fun]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/ninety_days_only/5576453-make-food-fun</link>
                <description><![CDATA[With over 15 years of experience, we bring the multi award-winning School Food Showdown to primary and secondary schools in your area. We deliver a high-energy, interactive, and healthy cooking show that gets students excited about food. Send me a message to secure your school's spot!
07837207590
Www.schoolfoodshowdown.com 
*****Check our Google reviews*****]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:33:01 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>90 days only</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Musty wardrobe]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/housekeeping/5576452-musty-wardrobe</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Slightly embarrassed that my wardrobe smells a bit musty or “used clothes” smell. 

Its very crowded with clothes and if I’m honest, some clothes I will re-wear like jeans or hoodies that I’ve only worn for a short period of time .

Should I empty it and re wash everything while the weather is fine?

how can I keep it smelling fresh?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:21:59 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Housekeeping</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Should I get back in touch with an old university friend?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5576451-should-i-get-back-in-touch-with-an-old-university-friend</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Hi all, 

I'm 42 and I'm not sure whether to get back in touch with an old friend.

We met at 18 on the train on our first day travelling to university. We got talking and realised we were starting the same course. For the next 3 years we were pretty much inseparable. When I think back to university, I always think of her.

We were complete opposites. She was ambitious, fun and daring, and I was much more safe and cautious. She really pushed me out of my comfort zone and made me see things differently. I honestly don't think I would have had half as much fun without her.

We came from similar backgrounds, with hometowns right next to each other. She always said our towns were boring and that she wanted to escape and build an exciting life and career in Dubai.

After university we lost touch for a bit. She got in touch to invite me to her wedding, and I invited her to mine, but by then she had moved to Dubai and couldn't come. We were back in touch when we both had our first children - she even came to see my daughter when she was back in the UK on a break. My husband and I were struggling financially at the time and living in a very run-down house. I remember feeling embarrassed to have her over, but she was lovely and we talked like old times.

We kept in touch on Facebook and by phone for a while, but then I think she deleted her Facebook account. I've always had the same number, but she kept changing hers and eventually we lost contact. I bumped into her on the train again about 12 years ago, but only had 5 minutes before it was her stop.

Over the years I've thought about her a lot and just assumed she was living the life she always wanted. I have my own life and friends now, but I've often wondered why she never reached out, as my Facebook account has always been the same.

A few weeks ago, my husband came home and told me about a new colleague who had started at his work - a single mum of 3 who had just moved back to the UK from Dubai after a messy divorce. When he said her name, I realised it was her. He's never met her before, but he showed me her picture on Teams and it's definitely the same person. She's now back in her hometown, living with her parents while she rebuilds her life.

My husband works in a different department so he doesn't see her much, and he's said he won't mention the connection until I decide what I want to do.

I'm so torn. Part of me feels incredibly sad for her and thinks she could really do with some support - from what I've heard from old mutual friends, she hasn't been in touch with many of them either.

The other part of me thinks - if she wanted to reach out, she could have by now. And I also worry a bit for myself. I have a very normal, simple, settled life now, and she has always been a bit of a whirlwind. I don't know if inviting her back in will cause upheaval.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Would you reach out?

Thanks]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[Loss of attraction to long-term husband, has anyone experienced this?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5576450-loss-of-attraction-to-long-term-husband-has-anyone-experienced-this</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I feel like a need to write this down because I haven’t spoken to anyone about it and I feel like I need to.
I have been with my DH since I was 17, we were childhood sweethearts, we are now mid 40’s. For the past few years I have felt a real lack of desire for him, I don’t think I fancy him anymore, he is in many ways a great man, we have a few things in common. He has gone from overweight to skinny and doesn’t generally look after himself, he has lost lots of his hair and in my opinion looks older than he is, he used to be a heavy drinker which caused issues, hence why he was overweight, he has developed better drinking habits now, but I just don’t feel any attraction towards him and have no idea what to do. Has anyone else experienced similar and does attraction come back again? I feel awful for feeling this way.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:04:36 +0000</pubDate>
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                <title><![CDATA[14 month old not eating]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/parenting/5576449-14-month-old-not-eating</link>
                <description><![CDATA[TMI, not for Emetophobes. 

Our nearly 14 month olds eating has become terrible recently. We’re really struggling to get anything in her and if she does eat she more often than not is sick. Not helped by her sticking her fingers in her throat. 

Even the guaranteed foods like scrambled egg or yogurts have become refused. She is on cows milk which we have swapped from whole to semi skimmed to see if she was just getting too full on that. 

Does anyone have similar experiences or advice? Thank you.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:03:44 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Parenting</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Lose and loose.]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/pedants_corner/5576448-lose-and-loose</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Saw yet another misplaced 'o' today and was annoyed enough to post on here.

The pronunciation even changes. 

Why do people insist on doing this? 

Is 'I am loosing all hope' being taught as correct in schools?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:02:56 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Pedants&#039; corner</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Attendance]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/education/5576447-attendance</link>
                <description><![CDATA[I find it entertaining that the school now has time to send us emails congratulating our children for having 100% attendance in their first week. 

I understand that the government wants to crack down on school absences, but I don’t think this is the main problem… and I certainly don’t think emails like this are going to make any difference.

We lived abroad for a year, and I actually really liked the system there. Every child had five days a year that they could use for anything — a mental health break, a family day, a holiday, whatever — with no explanation needed. For illness, they needed a doctor’s certificate.
There was also free breakfast and afternoon clubs, free summer camps at school, and free public transport for all children — subway, train and bus — so that parents could actually work.

And when children see their parents working, they seem to have more aspirations themselves: to attend further education, get qualifications and eventually have a job and be independent.
Meanwhile, here the government is only concerned about attendance… but I don’t think working parents are getting much support to actually make that attendance always possible.

Typing this after forking out nearly £700x2 for my kiddos’ bus passes.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:01:26 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Education</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[Should my son be on the SEN register for mild hearing loss?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/special_educational_needs/5576446-should-my-son-be-on-the-sen-register-for-mild-hearing-loss</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Ds7 was recently diagnosed with a mild permanent hearing loss in both ears  which he is going to try to manage for now without hearing aids (teacher agrees he can sit at the front and she’ll make sure he sees new words in writing to support his understanding; if it doesn’t work we can opt for hearing aids at any time but there are pros and cons so with the audiologist’s input we decided to wait for now).

I explained it all to the class teacher (y3, state school) and she said if I want I can have a meeting with sendco

Should I? It seems a bit like overkill at this stage as we are monitoring if the new adjustments are adequate.

Also should ds be on the Sen register?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 08:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>SEN</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[How Can We Become More Creative?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/creative_writing/5576445-how-can-we-become-more-creative</link>
                <description><![CDATA[Creativity can be useful in many areas of life, from work and learning to hobbies and everyday problem-solving. I’m interested in learning how people develop new ideas and stay creative over time.
What activities or habits help you become more creative? Do you think creativity is something we are naturally born with, or can it be developed through regular practice?]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 07:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
                                    <category>Creative writing</category>
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                <title><![CDATA[To get second hand washing machine for hubbys work clothes?]]></title>
                <link>https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/thirty_days_only/5576444-to-get-second-hand-washing-machine-for-hubbys-work-clothes</link>
                <description><![CDATA[My husband is a mechanic and often comes home black with oil, grease and general dirt on him &amp; on his clothes. We have always had one washing machine that we wash everything in and clean often due to how dirty it gets (i guess because of his work clothes). 

Our son has just started school and now has to wear white shirts 4 days a week (we rarely wear white clothes so never been an issue before, use to do half a load every other month). I have just washed some shirts and as I was taking it out, the sleeve rubbed against the rubber and now has black marks on the sleeve so needs rewashing. 

Thinking of buying a second hand washing machine to put in the garage to just use for washing his work stuff. Has anyone else done this? Is it possible to run a washing machine off a hosepipe? It would be a nightmare trying to get water supply out there to run it as would need to take up our patio etc.]]></description>
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                <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2026 07:49:01 +0000</pubDate>
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