Can anybody offer any advice? My 84 yr old DF was diagnosed with a melanoma last year. It was treated but it’s still spreading so he’s just started immunotherapy. About 3 weeks ago, just before he started treatment, he became unwell with what we thought was a stomach bug. Felt sick, no appetite. He took to his bed and literally has been there ever since. He managed to get to the hospital for his first treatment but then when straight home to bed. He lives with my mum (80) and she reports he is not eating at all and barely drinking. We encouraged her to speak to GP. She got hold of a lovely nurse practitioner who prescribed diazepam and sertraline. Part of my DF issue is he is extremely anxious about vomiting.
He’s been on these a week now. Appreciate sertraline will take some time to kick in. probably is, he’s still not eating or drinking. It’s been almost a month now. He had a fall when he went to the loo, possibly because he’s feeling frail with so little nutrition.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t live close. I’m encouraging my mum to go back to the GP but my dad can be stubborn. He’s gone from an active, dashing about OAP to completely bed bound. Any advice?? Thank you.
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Middaymatters · 08/03/2023 12:19
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