romantic relationship

[Whitewings]

Hello,

I don't know if my topic is relevant but I a writing while seeking for piece of advice.

I am 36 years old and have never been married before. I work in a larg ecompany. A year ago a man joined our department and seem to be fond of me in a quite romantic way. But I keep pushing him away because he is 17 years older and has been married twice ending up with theree children.

I wonder what a relationship with him would be like. Can anyone give me an advice objectively?

Thank you.

[457as]

@whitewings
Put yourself in his shoes, he's mid-50's and he's seen a younger female with no attachments. No strings, no hassle.
If you want a bit of fun, then fair enough, but unless you have spent time building a friendship, developing things in common over a period, then he's seeing you as a bit of fun.
That's how I read it xx