Please can you advise .I have boy girl twins that attend a small one form entry class and I am worried about friendships .
We are ethnic minority and I did not grow up in this country so that’s where I need your help .
I have an older child with asd on the severe side with adhd too and non verbal .
We live in a small house I am not sure this information relevant .
My boy is fine with friendships but my girl doesn’t have a fixed friend .Is this normal ?She kind of plays with everyone when I ask her she plays with everyone .They are both quiet and I have enrolled them in drama ,gymnastics rainbows and different clubs to help them though I and hubby are on the quiet side too .
My question is this ,do we have to do play dates as I feel maybe that’s why she needs to help with friendships but I am also afraid of letting people around us due to my older son with SEN.
Mums who have kids with SEN how do you do it and please what can I do to help her.
She went to a summer camp today and said she played all by herself when I asked her who she played with .
Sorry if it seems as if I am rambling .she seems happy but I am worried for her .That’s why I am wondering if this is normal .I will be grateful to hear of your experiences and what I can do .
I only organised a play date once and I was really nervous and I am not sure I want to do it again especially if they are different children .
do you think this is what is affecting friendships ?she mentions the names of 3 girls She’s going into year 2 now and I am worried she will be left out as there seems to be many established groups already .
They have some friends that we see outside school that are family friends though because of my sons SEN we are kind of isolated .
Please can you share with me what have worked for you .
Thank you
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helpmydaughter · 03/08/2022 15:05
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