My beloved grandad has received a diagnosis of terminal lung cancer. We have no idea how long he has or if he'll see Christmas, although he's on pretty good form at the moment, considering.
I've got lots of support on the emotional side but can't find anything on what really happens when someone dies from lung cancer. I'm scared he will essentially be suffocating to death and gasping for breath in his final moments. I want to know whether this is likely and, if so, what we can do for him to reduce the trauma (for him and us).
I think what I'm really looking for is people's experiences of being with someone who died from lung cancer as I'd rather know what could happen and be braced for it rather than be told it will be OK and peaceful and not to worry, only for it to be horrible. Kind of in the same way that my mum prepared me well for birth by telling me that yes, it would hurt (she had been told it wouldn't and then was terrified something was going very wrong when it did).
I know every death is an individual experience and my post could be deeply upsetting for some so I'm sorry if this is the case. I just need to feel a little more prepared on the practical side. Thank you.
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NeopreneMermaid · 04/10/2015 10:45
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